what do u do when you drop obvious hints that u like the guy but he still dosen't notice?!?!?!

If he's not noticing, he's probably not worth it. Like, if he doesn't notice now, he probably won't notice the little things in the relationship.

If he doesnt want to reciprocate those feelings he should be upfront. He really can not notice. And if he doesn't notice you might be needing a new prospective O.o You don't want his thick skull ruining the relationship if he can't pick up subtle hints. Well at this point obvious hints.

You'd be amazed how a classic Japanese "love confession" generally will get your point across to the opposite sex. But seriously, dropping hints doesn't always work. If he's anything like me, he notices, he just doesn't know how to interpret it. I'm around girls quite a bit, and we fake flirt all the time. Just today I gave one of them a Dr. Pepper and she said "We need to get married". Is she implying she wants to date me? I assume she's just joking around. If I assume every perceivable advance is an advance, then soon, everything that's somewhat friendly that a female does suddenly means she's interested in me; and that's ludicrous. So be straight forward.

Well, if you've already made up the mind to pursue a relationship with this guy, might as well go all out. If ever you want a straight answer to anything, you gotta ask a straight question

The direct approach may be the only way he'll understand. I was the same way till a few years ago.

I know a friend of mine who is completely oblivious to subtle hints. You literally have to spell it out for them... He's like a MC from a harem series where no hints will ever get through until you physically pin them down and tell them how you feel, then drop kick any other supporting cast from interrupting your moment.

I sense a necromancer in our midst. A powerful one with the dankest of memes conjured from the abyss. Anyway, just assume that the dude has autism, or some kinda neurological divergence or mental disorder that causes them to over analyze everything, and is so used to arriving at the wrong conclusion that they subconsciously subvert themselves whenever they get their hopes up so as not to be let down, or make the other party uncomfortable. If you're dealing with someone like that, just downright say it, and hope for the best. Personally, I respond more to eye body language, and that's not something a lot of women nowadays are particularly adept in. To those that are? Credit where its due!