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anime_fan_always_and_forever
I just need some advice on when I meet the right guy.I hadn't found one yet.But I just want some tips.Because if I ever find one that is.
cecil
Jan 07, 13 at 6:28pm
The best thing I can suggest for you is to invest time in getting to know the guy. Take an interest in his life, family, friends, interests, etc. Make the time and try and spend time with him when you can. Make plans to do things together. A girls actions can speak louder than her words when it comes to showing interest in someone, and assuming the guy isn't completely oblivious to those sort of things, he'll pick up on the fact you're into him. They may not say it directly, but a lot of guys I know love it when girls take the initiative on making plans, wanting to do things together, etc. Just be sure you give them the freedom to do the same.
talamar
Jan 07, 13 at 6:49pm
Second what Cecil Says! Not every guys specially these days has to be the persuer, some like to be the persuee.
metaljester
Jan 08, 13 at 4:29pm
You should definitely be yourself around him thats not really much of a opinon more over something that benefits relationships but also dont over complicate the relationship if you get to emotionally involved right off the bat it might turn them down be careful about that also depending on how he is if hes shy i would suggest mild hints to peek the interest up to spark a relationship you could ask him out yourself but not all people like this method if he is more direct then obviously you should just talk to him and if he is direct and likes you then he should ask you about it those are a few of my opinions i have many more but im just laying out the ones that seem to fit this
metaljester
Jan 08, 13 at 5:19pm
Very true as for this question all i can offer up is opinions based on a logical througt processing in hopes to give you advice on something that is not to specific i cannot guarantee anything with my answers only what i think of the matter
anime_fan_always_and_forever
Arigato ^^; I'm just hoping to find one guy,who can appricate me and loved me for who I am on the inside not on the outside.But anyway arigato again guys.
metaljester
Jan 16, 13 at 6:49pm
Your welcome i hope you find somebody on here too
kikisu
Jan 16, 13 at 8:15pm
I agree with Cecil, completely. It is very true, you just have to open up to that special someone if you are interested in him. If you are shy, that's fine I'm shy but I do my best when I'm talking to someone I think I might like. Just ask questions, get to know him and what he likes and bingo. Also, sometimes it is good to wait for like a year, or two if it's online dating or something, just so you know more about him and are 100% comfortable with him. Once you get to know him, skyping, or the phone is a good option just don't rush into it.
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