Love shapes

Who says there's no geometry in lovee?? Okay so I was watching movie with this love triangle and it absolutely pissed me off SO..... say you're with someone and they're absolutely perfect they're so sweet and caring and would do anything for you but after a while you notice you're both in a little rut. THEN comes along this new person and..well....they're NEW and mysterious or whatever the frig..... WHAT DO YOU DO?!?! Do you stay true and blue to your beloved or do you dump him and get with the new person???!!

Depending on how disappointing the first relationship is would be the major deciding factor. When I was with someone I loved, even when it got boring I never thought about leaving her for someone else. But if you don't feel that way, go with the second one, because if you really loved the first person you were with, than you never would have thought about the second person.

0.0 I hate people like that...people are not toys, to be thrown away when a better model comes along. I think its fine to look, but there are loads of ways to get out of ruts as long as both are willing...besides role play in the bedroom can make just about anyone into a mysterious stranger. :)

It kind of depends upon your situation. For me, I was exposed to a pretty nasty divorce caused by my father cheating on my mother - My father, being human, had a preference for women who did the housework and worked all the time to keep the house straight. My mother wasn't, and isn't still, the most energetic person, she likes a lot of sleep and she's also not a sex addict, like my father can be. Thus, when alcohol, his situation and his own preferences combined he cheated on my mother for some 20 something. I kind of scarred me, the divorce, for many years. From this, I'd say if you bring kids into the picture, like with me, you better be committed to that person you're with. You will have to be blunt to the person you just met and say "I'm married with kids, I can't do this." And as such I say you have to think long and hard about marriage and such, be prepared to spend the rest of your life with that person. And being the person I am, I'll do everything I can to stick to that code and not cheat. If I have to, I'll cut the new person off.

Well Masu-chan I'm sorry that had to happen to you hopefully you'll find someone who love and care for you and stay by your side no matter what! :)

I know where you are coming from masuji... i had bad experiences with my father as well... my father never had an affair, but he was an alcoholic, neglectful ass who abused my both physically and mentally and thought he had no obligation... i always think to myself "when i have kids i will make sure they know i love them" however sometimes i think "how can i be a father when i don't what it is like to have a good father?"

Chibibree if you are in love the new person coming in should not mean anything. However if there is no real connection between the first two, then a new person coming in may make some sense. We must ask ourselves "is there a connection?" We may not always like the answer, but we need to ask it

Well first off don't ever drink EVER otherwise you'd be continuing the cycle. Having alcoholic parents is absolutely shit, it screws you up in ways you wouldn't think were possible........ Just stay concious of the life you had and always remember that that is not the life you want your children to have.

There is a difference between having one or two beers once in a while and being an alcoholic. Alcoholism is never a good thing. However having the occasionally beer is a different thing. Take my mom for example, once in a while she has one or two beers and we all laugh and have a good time. I've seen first hand both the occasional drinking and the alcoholic.