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So here's the issue...

cecil
Dec 07, 12 at 7:04pm
Really, getting a second job and saving money is your best option. Look into things like donating plasma. For a move like this, you'll definitely want a minimalist approach when it comes to bringing stuff with you, so if you have anything worth something you could see yourself not needing in a foreign country like that, sell it.
ryuseven_0
Dude build your career focus on that. You won't be able to survive just going for it. Once you do, you will be able to make the jump. Besides if she really wants to be with you she will wait. Or come to you. First start with a visit see her in person. Estimate your trip. Should be about five to 10,000.00 not sure do some research. If the relationship breaks down from time at least you will be better prepared and have that money saved. Girls that are far away usually change their mind once they see that you are able to meet them face to face. They panic or suddenly change their mind about everything. That's been my experience. Don't be afraid of the numbers they are reachable. Just don't fall into debt because in the end you will only screw yourself and end up with nothing.
kazentaicell
I would recommend a visit first!! She may like you here but in real person it can be different and it would be really bad if you moved there and it just ends up with her leaving you. It is a probability but besides that save up and if she seems to have real feeling for you then make the big step and change. I would say go visit her atleast 3 to 5 times to see if its the best time of your life or if it was a waste of money.
digitalwolf001
<.< well lets say money is tight...real tight. Saving for one trip would take about a year at this point...and i'm already at the max I can work.
animelover1984
Definitely agree with Endless and Kazen. Visit her first. Get to know her in person, spend some time with her. Then decide if you want to change your whole life to be with her.
digitalwolf001
welp the issue just solved itself really...not really feeling in the mood to say more...thanks for your help anyway v.v
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