Acceptance.

when you die you finally get to be with someone. im counting the days. 35 years? half the time sleeping? thats not long. speaking of sleep i need to sleep.

I am gonna partly agree with sobo about the limitation. It is why you hear the common advice to do all the crazy things you want to do now before you tie yourself up. The common ones would be the crazy stuff that just won't pass if you are in a relationship (traveling or going out whenever you want, trying kinky stuff or being curious). It's not all entirely all limitations though. One thing I picked up from my ex that I am thankful for is reading for leisure. She forced me to like reading. I have to say, I did enjoy that as a hobby years down the road.

I didn't read OP, my apologizes. I was responding to the post above and assumed it was about death or accepting death. If I read it in response to OP it makes me sound a bit cold, sorry for the confusion.