What are you most attracted to?

Schnuupi- Well yeah, looks aren't the main reasons for choosing anyone. However, you can tell by someone's looks if they take care of themselves, whether they have good hygiene, Hell if you're really good, you can even tell quite a bit about their personality with their body language. I don't think anyone's arguing that looks is the most important thing. Having things in common is important however, are their any other personality traits that you happen to like? Sorry about the loss of the relationship, eight years is a long time. Just got to find the girl that won't leave, If she were the one, she wouldn't of left. Keep your chin up man. You'll find her. Ohad- Well, only way to find out is to go out looking, and going on dates. You'll find what you like about people pretty quickly. And what don't like. Some point, you'll find someone you just can't stay away from. Rue- This man, I see, is also a man of culture.

Ohad, I'm not going to just say it is easy. Because I've been in your seat before. It's not.. at first. You don't know WHAT you even like, let alone what you truly want. Not good with talking to people, let alone asking for dates. Probably not going to parties(personally, I'm still not a party or bar guy). So it seems like it's impossible to ever find a girl. It's not. Social skills, all are normal skill just like everything else. At first it's scary, but you practice, than it get's to the point where it's normal. You feel silly that you were ever afraid to talk to pretty girl standing next to you in line at a market, Or walking up to one that's reading a book in the park. You learn, that you can literally talk to anyone, Anywhere, and it's truly freeing. You'll find what you like man. All you got to do is put in the work like everything else.

Oh I'm pretty sure if I saw a girl with a LoL keychain (I have one) for example, I would be able to go and ask her about it, as it is something I could (possibly) talk about. Only parties I attend are family parties, I don't understand these "go and get drunk" parties.

It's mostly just to have fun tbh. That said, I've never found a group of strangers to be a good time, and while I've been drunk once or twice before, it was never at a party, nor for festival reasons. However, if you try, you can learn to do that with anyone you find attractive, or just in general. Not just with LoL keychain(Though that would help I'm sure.) But yeah, Keep your chin up buddy.