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When to confess your feelings?

redhawk
Jan 15, 18 at 2:42am
^ true love
houndofdoom
Every time when i confess my feeling for someone i got rejected so i stop doing it.
brasszombie
Honestly As Soon as You Confirm your feelings, Spend more time with them make sure you really know how you feel about them and then tell them the truth. Its what I did with Tea and while he might not have accepted my feelings right away, now were talking about moving in together in March. XD You do no Favors keeping it to yourself and honestly yes, it may not always be accepted right away, or ever but you only hurt yourself by not being true to you.
infernalmonsoon
Tell them you like them as soon as you figure out you actually do, even if you get rejected it most certainly doesn't hurt to let them know they have an admirer at the very least - it's better than getting those what-if feelings if you never speak out and they end up with someone else. Just don't ask them to marry you and have children in say less than a week of knowing them, that's just really creepy, off-putting and they probably never want to talk to you ever again :/
houndofdoom
Well i did but they said they were not attached to me and then did not want a long distance relationship i know when you lock your feeling away it's hurt you because you keep, the hurt out but it keeps you from caring about someone no i dont that anymore i just have not felt that way towards someone in long time if i found someone i like then i would, make sure that how i felt about them then tell them the truth about how i feel about them.
rainx
Jan 15, 18 at 11:02am
"Confessing" is basically the equivalent to asking a girl out on a date. It's basically one party signaling to the other "I like you and want to take this friendship to another level". It's not always easy to read signals from the other party, but generally when someone makes an effort to contact you, talk to you, and want to spend time with you, that's usually a good sign of some interest. Cold turkey asking isn't always the easiest because it can catch a lot of people off guard and they don't necessarily know how to respond or they may not necessarily be used to someone actually liking them very often. I'd say within a month or two of spending time with someone and getting to know them, you can usually tell if there might be some interest on both parties. I know it's not always the easiest to do it, but definitely asking face to face is definitely preferable to texting or over the phone, but I know it's not always easy to find that comfortable moment to talk or ask someone out because of how embarrassing it can feel or if things might not go well.
pippy
Personally, I don't date until after two months of being friends. Gives me time to get a good feeling of who you are as a person. I'm analytical despite being friendly and goofy. It's not a combination I like about myself, but meh it's me. As for confessing my feelings, it'd probably be like six months plus into a relationship and a opportune moment to do so? The two months and six months prereq allows me the highest chance to confess I love you. Either as a just friends or something more. If we're talking about laying it out all on the line with someone you've admired from afar? Nty lol, not me.
leaderofthedemonparade
I would say sooner rather than later, just tell them you like them & see what they say. Don't build it up though or say too much just be like 'look I don't expect anything from you & I'm happy being friends but I like you quite a bit & if you feel the same way that would be cool' if they say yes, cool, if they say no, then atleast you know where you stand & can act accordingly.
bob_loblaw
Gather 'round and I'll tell you all why there's no right or wrong answer to this question. EVERYONE falls into one of three categories during the beginning of the "Does she/he like me, cuz I like her/him" phase.... 1. Love 2. Lust 3. Desperate There's a fine line between the first two, and it's tricky for even the most astute lovelorn fool to distinguish which one they're actually feeling. Love means "I wanna grow old with this girl," and Lust means "I wanna put my penis in her vagina." And the third one means "I haven't touched a girl in X number of months/years/my entire life, and this girl talks to me, therefore she will accept my penis in her vagina." Now the predicament... the quagmire... the quandary... the impasse??? We all fucking lie to ourselves, thus, we lie to those that we present the question to! Those that say things like "She ghosted me for no reason tho!!" No, bruh, THERE'S A REASON, you just choose to ignore it because you fell into category #2 or #3. There were likely MANY reasons. Translation: No one can tell someone else what the "right time" is, because no one else knows the truth of what's going on between two other people. Therefore, we can only throw out shallow, arbitrary answers that are the equivalent of telling someone you don't know that to be happy in life, you just gotta do what you enjoy!
shinu
Jan 15, 18 at 7:39pm
Wait long enough for doubt to set in, so that you never ever confess. Also known as the learn more about them before jumping the gun plan. If you've spent a long enough time with someone and are sure you want them as a partner, then go for it. The worst that could happen is it becomes awkward and they stop talking to you, which is probably going to happen eventually anyways UNLESS you're successful and you put a ring on that.
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