What do you think about never getting married?

Marriage always seemed like an obligation and sort of like a promise that you have to keep, I think if your truly comfortable with your current position. Thats all that matters.

Marriage is the dream. walking down the lane in a white dress, flowers everywhere and at the end of the lane is the man of your dreams. Your family and his are all there with you on that happy day. Marriage is nice

Then you realise that as that fantasy would be nice getting married is expensive (well atleast where I am) and there are some people that can't afford to get married.

Marriage is nice but I don't really mind not going through with it. I'm scared of commitment. I'll always be happy for those who get married because they love each other and want to stay together till the end of time and all but I just don't think I'm ready for that. I don't think I'll ever be ready at all.

I sort of feel as if I'm too young to care about something like marriage even though I have been in relationships prior where I thought that marriage would be end goal. At the end of the day, it's a symbolic thing more than anything. A promise of spending your life with someone. Unfortunately things sometimes don't work out and it's far too much of a hassle to deal with the fallout. So unless I fell so deeply for someone again that I was marriage ready, I doubt I'd be willing.

Civil marriage holds no meaning to me. I want to fall in love and be with someone for the rest of my life, yes, but honestly if I don't find my person on time and I haven't found a way to be able to visit my family in the US, I will most likely marry as an agreement which will benefit my side on getting a citizenship. Other than that I'd do it for the romanticism it implies, probably a religious one instead of a civil one.

I see so much divorce that I kinda start thinking "what's even the meaning of that? :/ " Like idk marrigement is something serious as fuck, wait until you lived together for a good 4 years to make sure stuffs work. But I don't blame people that doesn't get married, for me is kinda indifferent XD It would be nice to have a big party and stuffs, but that isn't like a goal that I need to achieve in my life :v Probably cuz my gender issues gave me a lot of panic to this events and kinda made me lost interest.