What you look for in a potential relationship

This is getting a little depressing. What's proven to be the key to me is to consider yourself a catch and accept your flaws and be able to openly talk about them even without showing the slightest hint of regret about them. It's hard to like a person who doesn't like him/herself Try to like yourself before you go into the world, because otherwise you might be subject to constant rejection, which will only make things worse. The sad thing is that sometimes it's not even the person that's being rejected, but his attitude towards him/herself. People pick up on that

... let's see... - Simplicity. - Honesty. - Like games/animes/light novels - Patience ( I complain a lot about our political system here, what can be annoying ) - ... peresonally i like shy girls - Inteligent - Not drink or smoke. - I don't like to party... soo that would be a bonus xD - Romantic - Kind

sucker for them eyes and ass.

Hmm this can't really be summed up in a few words, but here are some pointers that I look for (in no particular order of importance): 1) She is a genuinely kind person. No mean girls here! lol. 2) She has goals/ things she is passionate about. Nothing more attractive than a woman on a mission. 3) Willingness to learn & explore the world. Closed-mindedness equals eh.. immaturity. 4) Communication (quite important). Is she open & honest? Can I trust her? Does she tend to flip out over trivial things? 5) She likes to have fun! I'm always joking around & staying optimistic. I like keeping positive people in my life. Just some stuff off the top of my head. Don't read too deeply into it lol.

It's quite hard to say what I prefer so I'd go with what I definitely can't stad: - Sweet talkers. And I don't mean like pet names or polite manner of talking. Guys who talk too sweetly and smoothly without stuttering mostly indicate that you're no different from any other girl and would easily give up on you. Guys who are careful with their words and consider girls' feelings are more interesting than some cheesy pick up lines (nothing against them but you get me). - Not confident. Like Sanfi said, if a guy doesn't have a strong will and will hate himself, why do you think it's a good idea to get into same sinking boat? Helping them out is a different thing but dating, it's a huge burden and task. I don't want to sound sexist or anything, but most females biologically are weaker than men, even I admit it, I'm not confident all the time and very sensitive person. I actually find over-confident guys attractive but if they go overboard as much as ignore me, I'm out. This actually applies to everyone, don't hate yourself, turn your flaws into good trait of your personality! If you really don't like something about yourself, change it. You're really free to do whatever you want. Just remember this: you owe nothing to anyone. Of course you have to respect others freedom as well and pay other debts, but other than that, you're free. - Don't look over themselves. Like, I don't look for overly fashioned or stylish guys but those who actually pay attention to their looks and hygien, have their own style and stuff. Honestly, when it comes to looks I'm extremely picky which is why I think online dating would be better since I'll get to know their character first than look. I know it sounds dumb and very typical meanie girl but it's just me, if I see a guy and it didn't give me a good expression, that will bug me all the time. If I intend to make friends, I don't really care, if you're good and cool, get along with me, who cares how you look, you're my buddy, yo. But in relationship sense, I'm extremely picky even though I'm not fantastic myself. (Im actually generally picky in most things like clothes and stuff, except food, especially free one). - Very demanding. I'd say I'm fairly intelligent but if a guy expect me to be with academical mindset and have firm caree plans, I'm sorry, you might think I'm independent but I honestly don't want to be. Of course I won't be a lazy ass and do nothing, but if a guy asks me to do more than I can, I'm dead. #ded I'd like to have a supportive and understanding partner than a bossy coach. - Narrow-minded. Considering my quite complicated international background, it would easy for both of us if we had some basic knowledge of other cultures and don't getoverly surprised if I don't know this or that or why I behave in certain way. Additionally, I'd look for somehow tolerable person since I like talking and do random or odd stuff, plus, I'm somehow panicy person if I get to stressful situation. - Too lazy. I don't mind if you get lazy now and then but, oh Lord, if you type with extreme abbreviations and misspell everything, I get pretty annoyed. If you use normal abbreviations and just to quickly reply that's fine but... You know what I mean, not caring what you say or type and what other will thing about it, just, no. You can use emoticons or whatever is your style, but if a guy is very lazy and doesn't care about absolutely anything, Im gone. Poof. - Immature. You can be childish, you can act innocently, you can act like a huge baby, but if you're actually immature, sorry bro, face the cruel reality. As for appearance: Not too buff nor overweighted. Fine hair, too? I don't know, but I'm pretty obsessed with eyes, so, if a guy has spectacular eyes it's a huge plus. Of course, no one is perfect and every one of you have fantastic character and nice appearance. These are just my preferences, don't get upset over those kind of things. I'm as umperfect as everyone else. Cheers.

I think the most important thing that I'm looking for is compatibility. Not in like common interests or anything like that (because that really doesn't matter) but if we'd work well together in life. If we compliment each other personality, life style, or world view wise than everything else is just icing on the cake.

Personally I just want to be with someone who at least tries to understand me, they don't have to be my reason to be happy because I need to be that for myself. What I need is someone who listens, and is comfortable with talking to me about my problems. In turn it's fair if I do the same for them. I want a relationship of equality.