sry for posting 3 times, didnt know it posted :P
It's all good. Looks like it'll be another night of bar hopping for me.
You're welcome Kirako! I hope your search will continue and that things will start to look up for you! Also, just beware of women that are more then 4 or 5 years older then you, lol. I myself don't know what you "limits" are when it comes to the age of the women you pursue, but the older the woman is, the more likely she is to be very confident with herself and knows what she wants and doesn't want so she might tend to be to strong willed for you. Also, like you said, younger girls are still pretty immature and bratty, so you've really just gotta already know what you're looking for and what you want so that you'll be more easily able to spot the fakes and mean girls from afar. Just give it time though and things WILL work out ^_^. Yes, i'm one of those "stay postive even when the worlds burning" kinda people, haha! But ya, what i'm saying really is true.
We will see, won't we? I want to be proven wrong.
@RyuuSayuri- You make a very good point. I recently had a similar experience where an older woman led me on, telling me how much she'd like to meet up, and then lost interest, telling me she's going with another guy :( I'm trying to stay positive, though.
Heartbreak is hard to deal with, but a necessary part of life if we want to grow. Yes it sucks really bad now, but 2 or 3 years down the road you will be able to reflect on the events that took place. You will be a stronger, smarter, and more confident person because you will know what you are willing to put up. You will learn to appreciate yourself and understand that most of the time it has absolutely nothing to do with you. It just happens sometimes, its best to just dust off your knees and keep moving forward.
looks like im in the same boat as you
I can't say I have ever been in the same boat, but it is sad that you are dealing with the women who give the rest of us a bad name. I'd like to give you advice, but I'm apparently not normal for a girl so I can't tell you what the normal ones think.
It works both ways. I have the same problem Sobi. I am not a normal guy. I would rather talk things out than hide in the "man cave." My daughter reads me all this stuff about how girls should coddle men. Just a bunch of crap in my book. Why do we all have to play games to get along? Why can't women just play it straight up with men instead of having to baby them?
Women are cruel creatures, most of them always lie and cheat to see how many guys they can get to fall in their trap. Which ruins the chances for girls that just want a serious relationship. My advice to you is to take it slow with your next relationship communicate as much as possible before you decide to take it up to the next level. You will get your girl believe me she will treat you right and not play these "childish games." I wish you luck and I hope I can get out the same boat as you.