Having zero friends can cause insanity

@microvelvet Family is more important than friends. Friends come and goes But family stays forever

I'm still a loner because of the fact that I don't have any friends and even when I was in high school people treated me like I was a joke as I live the life of Naruto uzumaki besides the fact that both my parents are still alive and I don't have a nine tail fox in my stomach. I literally live that life and made multiple mistakes due to not being told right from wrong. Anyway a lot of stuff happened and I ended up moving so right now I don't really have many friends.

As someone who is considering going mute, and literally never leaves the house. I’m going to answer these questions from the first page. “According to studies to have zero friends can damage your health and mental status. Most of them get insane and mostly mute”. I mean. You’re not wrong. It has damaged my mental health, and I am insane. “Why are they friendless?” I never learned how to make friends. It can be awkward talking to people irl. “Bad experience?” Yeah, you can say that. I’ve had my share of bad experiences. “Shyness?” True. I’ve always been shy. Even when i was a baby, I was shy. “Fear?” I have fear of negative experiences with people. Fear of social awkwardness. Fear of snakes. “Hate?” No. I don’t hate anyone. “Anger”? No. I am not an angry person. I actually try to avoid conflict. “Hating themselves?” Yeah. Pretty much. I hate myself. “Being hated?” Um. It has come to my attention i rub people the wrong way. “I feel sorry for these people because I recognize something in them by myself”. It’s fine. I make due with what i have. I’ve gotton used to being alone. Growing up, i would stay at my Dad’s during the summer. My parents have always been divorced as long as i can remember. The summertime, was the time when my Dad had custody over me. As his child i had a legal obligation to stay in his custody. At keast that’s what i was told as a kid. i missed him, so i stayed in his custody over the summer every single year. Even though i was away from my friends and lonely. When i was younger, I would have to go to the babysitter places. My Dad has always worked over the summer, and someone needed to watch me. When I was at the babysitters, they just made sure i was there and breathing, and then brushed me off so I wouldn’t bother them. They just needed a quick cash, i guess. Dad didn’t pick me up until the late afternoon, when the summer sun started going down. When i turned 12/13 ish I was old enough to not have a babysitter. I could finally stay home alone. Little did I know at the time, that now every summer I’d go to my Dad’s house and be isolated from everyone. No internet. No people. Just me and nature. My dad lives in the country you see. In the middle of nowhere. Throughout my school year, I went back to school and people would ask me what i did over the summer. From kindergarden til’ now I’ve had to say “Nothing. I’ve done absolutely nothing nothing over the summer”. I’d hear stories of kids taking vacations with their families, and I envied them. I was too embarressed to say i’d been at the babysitters for the entire summer, so i said “i did nothing”. It was easier saying i did nothing, then explaining my circumstance to teachers, or other students. I was too embarresed to say i had been watching antenna tv the whole summer by myself. My summers were the most boring and uhappy times of the year for me. I stayed though, because i love my Dad. As a kid I ‘d rather stay at school, then have summer vacation. I loathed the summer. There was nothing to do over the summer. My Dad didn’t come home until 6. I’d be home all day. Everyday. All summer long. Every summer. The point I’m trying to make is that I’ve gotten used to it. It’s a habit now. I’m used to being isolated It’s part of my life now. I’m going to use my isolation to turn it into a good thing. It brings me peace now. I don’t talk to people now, unless I’m talking to people online(duh). Being alone also has given me clarity, I’ve reflected in my life a lot. Can isolation and being antisocal be a bad thing? Yes, It can. But it can also make you stronger as a person. I think the main readon why anyone does anything, is because people go through some shit, and they need to cope. They need something to do. They need motivation. Some people do drugs or drink, some isolate themselves, some draw, some write, some stop talking, some join fandoms or watch tv, some join the militia, some go into fashion or makeup, some sing, some act, some become comedians, or even doctors. It is human nature, human instinct to survive. Were’re all not that different when you think about it. Were’re all just trying to survive in this topsy turvy world. We are all lost and are trying to find ourselves in our youth. Some people don’t even find themselves until later in life. That’s just my two cents on the topic. Sorry for the spam. I realize my comment takes up half the page.

@foo wut, how am I popular?

You could try talking to people that experienced the insanity, and to try to understand what it was that was insane, and learn from it. Either that, or find someone that accepts you the way you are. You could try explaining that you are different and unique.