I need a bf that won’t hurt me

I am going to give you some advice. Set standards and boundaries and see who will live up to those standards and who will respect those boundaries. Also think "Can I live with this person got the rest of my life" You got this! Now go find that special person!

Nobody needs a boyfriend. Nobody needs a girlfriend. This is the biggest mistake people make with dating. They think they "need" someone so they end up lowering their standards in hopes they acquire someone. There's a guy on here who always talks depressed on his profile and wants attention from women. It sucks that he's depressed but he's doing this dating thing wrong. You also need to realize you don't need a boyfriend. You need to share your happiness with someone. Not need someone to be happy.

Exactly what lilyyazawa said. Learn to love yourself before you give love to another. Never lower your standards. You are worth exactly what you decide you are worth. No one else can decide that but you.