Do you like who you are?

humans dont equal animals thats all i gotta say in counter to that, I hope that helps you reflect on the quality of your rebuttle

i already stated, try and keep up, that people say things in the heat of the moment and theyr judgements are clouded by emotions. if you think that because your actions or words in that moment are not things your own mind created to harm someone then your literally insane. there was no monster taking you over and making you call that person fat or ugly, it was you who thought and said that to hurt someone. you knew those words would hurt them and yet you said them. to say you didn't say hurtful things to hurt someone is insanity hope you can use this knowledge in your daily life to help improve yourself and your actions.

according to your own logic people shouldnt worry about the things they say when their judgements are clouded because 'its not really them' but if this is you agreeing that my frame of self improvement well then I'm glad you seen the logical error in your thinking

Ah, you weren't arguing whether he does or not but rather whether people should? That's a bit more clear then. I'll try to give a clear example to finish up because I want some PP time. Let's say a person has "having a clean house" as an ideal, he wants to have a clean house. But it's not, it's dirty because they haven't cleaned it. So why haven't they? maybe they're exhausted from work everyday, maybe they don't have much experience with cleaning, maybe they're depressed and have no motivation to do anything that isn't 100% necessary, maybe they have someone they prioritize and helping their life out is more important that spending time to clean, maybe they're disabled and it is a physically difficult task, but still they have the ideal of having a clean house. And so the actions they've taken, by your interpretation would be that they don't want to have a clean house and they're lying to themselves. If i've got your stance correct. But from my view, they do 'deep down' want to have a clean house, it's just they can't do it. They are unable to act out their ideals because of many external factors, and internal factors.

I think your analogy is flawed. the better comparison would be someone wanting a clean house and claiming it is clean when it isn't. the house being their over all character and the dirtiness being their continued actions. i take issue with dishonesty that leads to someone continuing to harm someone/thing. even if someone is depressed doesn't give them license to be a bad person and think theyr allowed because theyr depressed. it still makes them a dick. is it a reason as to why theyr a dick? ofcourse but the issue is if they still think deep down their good they wont change their actions because theyr satisfied with just being good deep down. and most likely hinders the natural response of guilt. this was a fun discussion though, hit me up if you ever wanna discuss anything similar.

what didnt i answer or are you gonna just not respond to that like you always do and continue to simply be passive aggressive like you always do because goodness forbid you actually take a look at your own actions and realize your the issue here https://media3.giphy.com/media/26hiufnLWeUS1z7b2/giphy.gif