tired of being overlooked

you talking about on this site or in general? cause i get what you mean i feel like a stalker sometimes because of how much i got to do to get someones attention.

i feel your pain. Youd think with avg looks and making 25 bucks an hr i have some interested partys, but nope. I figure the reason i get passed over on here alot is i am 27 and most of the girls currently posting are like 19

I mean outside of this site... i dont feel overlooked here lol. Is it how i look? I mean i'd call myself handsome and i have been called it at times from certain people.. but i dont know

@Manic, I here you. Being 32, I'm even worse off since I'm too old for most girls on here lol. I don't make a killing in hourly wage, but I do make enough to support myself and have a decent amount of spending money each month. Most girls around my age are already settled down and have kids and aren't interested in dating a gamer like me. :P A lot of the time, I do think it comes down to personality and/or looks. I don't think I'm a bad looking guy, but I'm not afraid to admit I'm a bit on the goofy and weird side. It might be okay with more geeky type culture, but not more "normal" kind of girls who want a more typical kind of guy.

I feel overlooked here and everywhere I go to be quite honest with you. I'm usually the one asking the questions and sending the friend invites and doing all the legwork just to get someone to talk to me, but then again I made lots of pity topics about me, and don't post on the forums with as much positivity as some of the other members, I guess I come off as desperate, when in truth all I want is one friend to just talk to, and in real life I'm super quiet, so it's a no brainer as to no one notices my existence :p Nonetheless I'm not giving up yet.

I dont think being active on here has much to do with anything. Ive been one of the most active posters on here and it hasnt done me any good. Looks,Location, and/or Age are the key factors imo. Ive more or less given up on trying to talk to the girls on here. I feel like ive made a few more anime friends tho

^ Animecountryboy hasn't put up a photo of himself and yet everyone flocks to him in heartbeat. So no one knows what he looks like, but his age and location maybe the reason why he gets so much attention plus his positivity. Aside from that I pretty much gave up on finding love here as well, also due to my recent research it says most men who do online dating has less than 10% chance of finding a significant other due to the fact that most dating sites are filled with Men, this site is no exception, I'm positive the Male to Female ratio is pretty large here. There's also the fact that there's numerous dead accounts here too, most of em being the females. There's more info I can bring out but I'm not up for lecturing other ppl.