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Finally learning being lonely sucks

nakushi
So I've always been alone to be honest i really enjoyed it i got to focus on what was important to me but after recently breaking up with the gf and mates being really busy with work/uni ect. I've realized i am lonely and i lack friendships most people have.
laffantion
You had a GF? You achieved something I did not yet
draig
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laffantion
Yes but why feel happy later when it could be now?
nakushi
@Laffantion having a gf isn't everything, if you think it is going to bring happiness into your life try focusing on making your life better without one. Everyone that hasn't had a gf suddenly thinks it will somehow make their life amazing but the truth is a relationship is a lot of work and if you are not happy in your normal life a lot of things are going to be strenuous in the relationship.
alihawk
Only thing having a gf got me was more depression.
hakutaku
You need some years to be a real loner.
kuharido
@hakushi. bro, your profile says you go to the gym. Make friends there.
nakushi
@kuharido it's closed right now and it's a 24 hr gym i go when there is no one around about 1 - 2 am just because it fits my schedule better
alihawk
1am gym sounds cozy.
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