Romantic Fail =/

So to make a long long long story short here is in chronological order the events of what happened. 1. I meet girl and like girl 2. Friend slanders my name and gets girl 3. He treats girl like crap and sneaks around behind her. 4. 1 year 3 months later they break up. 5. we start talking 6 months later. 6. She tells me she likes me, I tell her I like her. 7. She used to hang out at my house with my friend while they were dating, I felt it would be to awkward it is still too soon for us to date. 8. 4 months went by and we stayed just friends until one day she disappeared. wouldn't answer my texts and she deleted her facebook. 9. She ended up meeting a guy who is over protective, made her delete all her male contacts and delete her facebook! 10. 8 months go by and still no word from her. 11. I stopped by her house and she answered the door. I planned on asking her to dinner and a movie. 12. She said, she had to meet her boyfriend for lunch =/. It was an epic fail of what seemed like a movie quality tale. Guy goes after girl and gets girl. Nope instead I stood there like a stick in the mud. With that being said, don't waste time. It could of been if i wasn't so worried about making my friend mad for going out with her..when he screwed me over in the first place, trying to one up me or something out of jealousy.

That is so sad... Q_Q reality needs to be more the movies!!! no this is an otaku site! it needs to be like an anime!!!! *just thinks of an idea*

Dude sounds like you need better friends and though waiting can be a bad thing it can also be a good thing you find a better person or just the right person for you and if you rush into a relationship that you might not be comfortable in it could just make for a bad relationship. I feel as though it always just has to come together, be that right moment you know or else you end up in a bunch of failed relationships like my friends who lives with me. I waited I found a great girl who is interested in me we still have to meet and plan to next month but she has been waiting 2 years with out a bf and I pretty much my whole life (I've been on dates but never had an official gf) so it all works out. Even if she doesn't work out for me it just means I have to wait for the right one to come along at the right time and I feel that's the same for everyone.

Yeah it was kind of a cheap move from my friend. I take pitty on him though because, he has been a good friend besides when it comes to girls. At the time I didn't know how much I liked her until we all started hanging out. He would go play video games in my game room and me and her would watch tv and talk. She is loyal though and I wouldn't dare make an advance. Karma got back to my friend like it always does. He ruined his reputation in my small town and now no girl wants to deal with him. So I don't think I have to worry about that happening again. And kawaiidango I will accept that pitty-pop for a rainier day, =].

Join the club is all I can say. Sadly I am part of that club as well. Although in my case friends have never been an issue. I manage to end up in situations that are too difficult to work threw. I usually like sharing the blame so I guess my mistake is I believe in people too much.

profound shoulder pat my friend. Dont worry youve got a full life ahead of you and youll find someone better. Just learn what you can from it and try your best