Women don't want "nice guys" they want "Genuine" ones

i met a girl who find me a nice guy, but then it becomes a reason not to be more than friend because i’m nice to everyone (whereas she wants to be special, which means i need to stop being too nice to other people) that is just impossible for me to do because i’m the soft type of person, and to be monopolized by somebody also turns me off we end up being friend and it’s great ~ so far so would you guys be less of a nice guy to other people if the girl you kinda find attractive feels insecure? i’m just throwing the question out of curiousity

@funseeker You treat everyone the same BUT a girl you're talking to will ALWAYS want to feel more special than all the other ones you're speaking with. So you make her feel more special, does that mean you stop being nice to the others? Nah. Until she says the magic words "Where are we?" or "What are we?" and all those variants which lead to you two being exclusive, you don't stop talking to other girls.