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soulxevans
So i got this girl I really like and we have been texting for a while now but she lives a hour or 2 away from me so we haven't even met. On top of this her phone doesn't always get my messages but when it does we have great conversations. We aren't together yet but in the future I could see it happening I really wish she lived closer and I have no idea if she should be secondary and I should look for someone closer and just hope that I get to her before someone else gets to me or if I should not look for anyone and just hope to go out with her soon :P. We have some plans for Halloween and November but September is so busy for me with the start of school and work plus she doesn't have a car so it's a bit harder for her to get down here. :/ I know I didn't really make it clear what I'm asking about, I mainly just wanted to vent but if you guys have anything to say about it speak up.
animeboy
Dude man, If my buddy were here he'd tell you, that your a lucky bastard to have a girl that lives in the same state. My friend's girl lives several states away. I'd say be glad that you have someone to talk to in the same state,at least you needn't travel far at all. Anyway I sure hope things go swell for you and this girl. I know it sucks that you have to drive 2 hours each time to see her, but my friend would need to see his girl few times each year IF he has the money. I bet my friend would tell you he'd be real happy to trade places with you XD
soulxevans
thanks for the thought man :P
digitalwolf001
I think you should be clear with her, ask her how she feels about the situation or how she feels about you. I know it's blunt and straight forward but if she already feels you both could work out and she doesn't want to look for someone else, there's no reason to search for someone else. To sum up my rambling, communication is the key, start the trend early lol. Good luck man and I also agree with Tiger Festival.
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