Premarital sex

lets take a poll on people's thoughts of this topic. for me i feel that as long as the people really and deeply care about each other in a mature emotional way that it can be ok. the reason i feel that is because there are some people who just don't agree with the concept of marriage (not me, but some people feel that way) but are deeply in love with someone

Tough one buddy. Sex I feel is just sex. There are so many people that do it without meaning or feeling. Those are the type I like to avoid. Marriage I would say is more of a symbolic commitment to each other. Is there to give you something to look back on and should only strengthen your resolves to make it work with each other. Whether or not couples decide on having sex before marriage is usually ruled by attraction and needs. In my case I can respect someone wishes but if placed in a situation where that person can't hold back. I am not one to say no if you know what I mean. Depending on how strong the attraction and scenario in the moment.

I vote against marriage ^^ Oh not on topic? Then I vote for more sex anytime ^^

i would like to quote a great women on something "i believe people should have sex because they are in love, not to fall in love" PS- if you can name that woman you win lol =) i do intend to marry the woman i end up falling in love with if she will have me. i fully agree with the concept of marriage personally. however marriage and sex should no be rushed.

Having been there and done that ( marriage ), I say that marriage is no longer what it served traditionally. Marriage was originally a public declaration to the community that you and your partner live in. Later religion took over and formalized it a bit. Now marriage is a construct of the government to promote approved behavior. ( Marries couples receive greater tax breaks, single mothers receive greater welfare, restrictions on gays wanting marriage ) I am all for commitment, but I do not want the government involved. As far as sex and intimacy before marriage, well, like all intimacy, that is between the people involved. I will not put out an opinion since I would not care to have someone else to judge me. It's all up to you and your partner or partners, it's no one else's business.

nothing against sex before marriage but i need to have feelings for someone to have sex with them. So only sex in a relationship for me. Well in theory. In practice i am a virgin.

sex is a recreational activity some would say its funner to play that activity with your significant other, others would disagree both opinions are valid i can see the fun in saving it til marriage, though im a bit skeptical because i imagine having no sexual releases would put stress on the relationship and may lead to cheating (i dont put people on very high standards, im the kind of person who would worry that if i dont fuck my significant other they could cheat and it wouldn't be entirely their fault. i set the bar pretty low) but to each there own also, phoenix was a pretty kool dude be nice if he came back to mai someday