What kind of dere do you go after when it comes to dating?

Same, I find such character types are a bit too generalized to apply to real people. People aren't just one personality trait all the time so the fact we try to categorize them like that is foolish. We are allowed to disagree, change our minds, have more than passion. That's what being human is, and we should demand the same from characters in fiction as well.

The reason why I made this isn't to cause any problems or anything like that I made this because the fact that is a question that comes off a lot when I see real life females pull off said type of characters I'm real life. Just because you haven't met them doesn't mean that they're not there as I've met a girl that literally went through having feelings for me but pulled off the type of character of a Tsudere so well from the fact that one of her friends told me that she liked me to the fact that I even confronted her and told me that she didn't like me but she would always hang around me and hope to see me again but always told me that it's not that she likes me but ended up finding out years later that she had a crush on me. And if that's not proof enough I've even dated a Yandere but that's a story for another time.

I guess. It just seems more realistic to me when people are multifaceted so the idea of a person who can be mean and nice gets its own label. By that logic everyone is a tsundere.

Tsundere, i want to climb over that wall of anger. https://data.whicdn.com/images/77153374/original.gif

Of couse tsunderes only work irl if is a girl. If a woman said her boyfriend hits her and calls her an idiot but is actually really nice he would get arrested.

too sensitive for a tsundere (unless its diet tsundere, but thats just cheap) or kuudere (id think they hated me) too much of a pussy for yandere (though on paper are my faves) too shy for a dandere (neither of us would make a move) too lazy for oujidere (though they make great shoujo love interests) id probz take undere because they have a mix of what i like, which i guess is a cop out, but to be fair the rest only belong in anime https://media2.giphy.com/media/VGACXbkf0AeGs/giphy.gif