Nice guy syndrome and white knights

I get labeled a white knight pretty often, but what many don't realize is I'm asexual, and don't care what genitals people have. When I see gender shaming, I step in. As for nice guys and "Nice Guys", I'm kinda with Muggleborn on that one. I empathize with people who don't know how to wiggle that ass to get chicks. The more toxic variety tend to be people who just don't get how sexual attraction works, and get angry that the self insert harem anime protagonist approach doesn't actually turn any heads. As a naturally empathic person by nature, you can still be nice and get the girl. Just have some conviction in yourself and your feelings. It's not an "I win" button, but its probably where a lot of the nice guys fall short.

I see nice guys and white knights as guys who just have no clue how to get women. I don't mean that as a jab or something to laugh at, I genuinely believe these guys just have no idea how to make themselves sexy or desirable to women and often resort to some pretty sad measure in the vain hope of getting a girl's attention or simply to get coochy. Sure not everyone is good at the "game" but if someone is trading their dignity to be every girl's bitch or becoming hateful just because they get rejected then those are just two sides of the same pathetic coin. These are the kind of guys that need to assess themselves and work on becoming a better person but sadly I'm sure most of us are skeptical they'll ever have that level of self awareness.

Hmm. A white knight defends a woman hoping to get somewhere with said woman. Same with the nice guy. Neither is really anti woman. Quite the contrary. They idolize them. I bare no ill will towards either, I just find both of these methods of attracting a woman fairly ineffective as a sole method. A woman wants or atleast enjoys being protected and defended to some degree. Same goes for being treated nicely. It just can't be the only thing you offer in a relationship. As for the frustration of the white knight and nice guy, thats just anger and confusion due to unrealistic expectation.