Ghosted

I feel like I ghost people/people ghost me accidentally, like we both forget to send a message one day and then it just goes on until they fade into memory. But maybe that's for the best, I never ghost people I truly care about.

Twice just last year, plenty more over the course of my life. Both were people I thought were friends that I'd known long enough for it to really sting (about 3 months for one and close to a year for the other). I'm with Enki on what she said in regards to getting closure. At least tell me if I did something wrong so I can learn from it and not do it again.

It happens, but it's genuinely a part of life. Sometimes you're just not compatible with certain people, and I feel that ghosting is their way of saying that it isn't working out without wanting to hurt you by explaining why. Personally, I don't think it's a big deal, because ultimately there's billions of people in the world. There will always be someone out there that you will bond with. Just take it in stride, and don't let it get you down. You'll make friends/relationships eventually :P

I have been ghost enough times to know when I have been ghost and it really ticks me off when I have to literally he told lies just so somebody can save their own skin and say oh I wasn't ghosting you. seriously I have even dated a girl that I was engaged to and she goes to me by blocking her Facebook and literally showed that she goes to me and having me look on her Facebook to know that she was dating somebody else. And the last time me and her ever talked she said what did I ever do to you.

@Codename You're still pretty young, so it's a lot easier. When you get older and you're out of school working a career, its a lot harder to meet people you can actually connect with, let alone make friends. It really sucks to invest your limited time in someone to have them just disappear because they couldn't be bothered with talking things through with you. Again, in many cases you have no idea what you did wrong so it's very hard to learn from it, and you could have been using that energy trying to find someone that *won't* ditch you. Or even something productive.

@densetsu_no_baka Well, I have a house, two car payments, and I'm juggling a full time job while waiting on college enrollment. I also live away from everybody else. I'd like to think I know what it's like to have limited time lol. Not everybody is going to like you, whether it's down to your interests not aligning or your personality in general. People have the freedom to walk away and move on if things arent working out. I'd love to hit it off with everybody I talk to, but that simply isn't realistic.

People who ghost need to go to hell. If you can't be upfront and honest with people, you are a piece of shit, simple.