Real relationship advice

dont always worry if they dont like u back no ones perfect we are all differant. dont worry if things dont work out think of it as a chance to grow.

I do understand these actually cool and fun to hang out with guys who constantly get rejected. It can really make guys feel like they are nothing good, especially when the girl isnt being open on the reason why she rejected him

Even the coolest people get rejected. Trust me, I should know. :D But this isn't exclusive to men. It just happens more because men usually ask women out. Women who ask men out will tell ya the same thing as those men. That they wish the guy would be more open and clarify why they rejected her. And the sad part is that no one is entitled to know that. People have their reasons and we just need to accept it and move along with our lives if things go south. However I'm not saying you can't be upset. Its okay to be sad and have a cry on the kitchen floor with a whiskey in one hand and your eyes locked on a single spot of the roof for an hour. Better to do that than go after them on social media or other douche level things.

Try being friendly with a friend who happened to be quite close to you. Even using your body as a pillow in class. Only for them to just like another boy yet still wanted you to come to prom anyway. Those were not fun times. If there is one thing I've learned, just because someone is very close to you or friendly with you doesn't mean that they will love you. Perhaps that person was not the right one and I could find that right match soon. Online dating sites are all I got when some girls do not want to mingle with my type.

"just because someone is very close to you or friendly with you doesn't mean that they will love you" - This is important

Bingo. I've learned this the hard way for sure. It stung for a year or two, but I eventually gotten over that. Me and that friend is still on good terms in the end of the day. What matters more is simply letting that right girl come to me than simply going for any girl out there.