If they are our children, yes. Step-dads usually have weird dynamics with their children and honestly just come over as being desperate to get laid.. Then again, if the kids are young enough and there's a strong love between us, maybe I would.
Depends on a lot of factors. How well do we hit it off, how many kids are we talking, how'd she end up in that situation, she's gotta be onboard with having kids of our own, my current status (employment/economic), etc. Definitely not a situation you'd be looking to put yourself in.
Then again, if the kids are young enough and there's a strong love between us, maybe I would.
after taking care of a toddler for 3 months i really really would rather not
but i still would if i loved the person enough