Maybe our parents shouldnt have had kids?

Here a part of my life (don't ban me ok? Ty.) As the first son of my family I sure was wanted. I was forced to act like an adult since I was 6. It was a rough time and I could never enjoy life. My mom tried to convert me to islam while my dad tried to make me an atheist since his believing were that religion stops you from gaining success. When I was 11 I ran away and be friends with the neo nazis germany. They were my friends I never had. I was able to speak german and turkish on perfection but my turkish side of me was a dangerous secret. Few days later the police catched me and I was back home. My parents was shocked when they found out that I start turning to a racist. They started to beat the crap out of me every single day. I wasn't allowed to go outside anymore and forced me to sleep in a mosque every weekend and holidays. I learned alot about the islam and had many turkish friends. On my 16 birthday I moved out from home and joined the turks. But that was a huge mistake. I started to smoke joints everyday, was a huge alcoholic with a favor for money. I hate all religions and just focused on getting money and the german army. I wanted to show my parents that Germany is much better than every single country in this world. That was the best decision I had. While I did sports everyday there I was able to study psychology. My parents gave me up and don't see me as a part of the family anymore and calling me racist traitor. Well parenting can get easy out of hand xD

I personally have had the opposite experience, I had very good parents honestly. My dad was always around and honestly spoiled us a lot since he's generally easy going and always got us what we wanted. I was also the youngest (the baby) so I was spoiled even more. :u My mom was strict, but fair. To be perfectly honest she definitely wears the pants in the marriage and was definitely the one who taught my brothers and I how to be men. I remember the first time I was bullied my mom was the one who told me to go back outside and kick their ass. xD Unfortunately that whole dynamic was the result of my father's youth though. His father was murdered when he was a little boy so his mother raised him and his brothers alone, his family are generally just very non-confrontational and passive when it comes to those things, so I can't really blame him for the way he handles emotions and whatnot. My mom also became the person she is because of her background, my grandmother was a very kind, graceful and strong woman while my grandfather was a pretty shitty person leading to a lot of dysfunction which honestly shows itself in a lot of ways through my aunts and uncles today, lots of lying and keeping secrets for no reason because my grandfather was a compulsive liar and greedy as fuck. My mom didn't really feed in to that behavior because she was the oldest, most responsible, and was treated the worst by my grandfather because he didn't believe she was his daughter for a long time since she took after my grandmother's family and had a very light skin complexion. Because of that she had to work her ass off as soon as she was old enough to apply for a job since my grandfather started charging her rent also. :u But yeah, I'd say there's a lot of people from the previous generation who probably would have been better off becoming parents later rather than sooner. My parents had my oldest brother when they were in their early 20's but they were prepared and had their shit together.

I was very OCD as a kid because of medication and I was mostly a loner. I liked video games and tv. Also sweeping or killing sticker bushes. I'll never be normal but I'm ok with it kinda. I'll never know what it's like to have a family that sucks.

Damn... that feeling that your life was easy as fuck after reading other ones history :' ) For years I thought my mom wasn't a good mom. She was transphobic, homophobic, and other things. She wasn't the most open person you could find >.> But idk, I believe she grew me up really well, even tho I had a hard time, and I still can't be fully myself, I ended up being a nice person with good values :v But I had a friend that oh hell their mother was the worst. Their mother would have suicidal tendencies and would hurt them and kick them a lot of times :/