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leo_ss
A sugar daddy wants 'sugar' it is rarely just about having someone to talk to. You're looking for paying for a date. I mean come on, it's even in the name. There's a difference between renting a friend for a day(which in my opinion is sad. And I hope they learn social skills instead later, to get real friends.), and being a sugar daddy. I mean I'm sure there are some who don't, but then I question them actually being what they say they are. It's like calling pork, bacon. I mean, you're not really wrong. But the meat we define as pork, isn't bacon. And saying it is, is just being confusing for the sake of technicalities. And yeah, there are a helluva lot more school shooters in america. Just like there's alot more rape in Sweden. Or alot more violent crime in the uk. But we aren't talking about Countries now are we? So yeah. At least in what an actual sugar daddy is, It's basically prostitution, except with one guy to screw instead of multiple. A guy paying for a date, with no sugar, Isn't really a sugar daddy. Either way, I believe in the right for people to do with their money and their actual bodies as they please. It's just not something I would be so desperate to do myself.
yamadaed
Apr 25, 18 at 1:56pm
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yamadaed
Apr 25, 18 at 1:58pm
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amrodcalanor
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sadjester
Peanut butter...what?! https://78.media.tumblr.com/61cfa261154f87457f711f6f9504da43/tumblr_ogcdf4y2AL1vqde8vo1_400.gif
leo_ss
While that isn't prostitution, I would argue that isn't being a sugar daddy relationship. If your father or mother, asked you to go get pork for a roast, and you bought them bacon. You'd obviously not be getting what they wanted, but similar things. It isn't that kind of relationship. It's more like the Japanese culture, where many older men, pay highschool girls to go on dates with them. Which isn't really the same as, the thought that comes when you say the term sugar daddy/mommy. My point is, is that The general conception of that kind of relationship involves sex, for money. Sex for money, (Whether it be exclusive or not.) is prostitution. It's the same thing in the end. Sex For money. Whether it's sex with multiple guys, one guy multiple times, or multiple guys one time. If you're doing it for cash, you are indeed being a prostitute for a time. I've talked, and listened to many people bud. It doesn't matter what you do as long as it pleases you and harms no one else. However ask any random guy/girl on the street what 'sugar daddy' is, and they'll 9/10, say a guy who pays a younger girl for sex. What people do in the bedroom is none of my business, it's just something I'd never do myself.
wasistdas
Hmmmm, seems like alot of the ppl in MO didn't understand what a sugar daddy is. It's just a relationship with woman who ain't that rich. The fact that the man is carring for his GF (Restaurants, shopping etc) makes it called sugar daddy.
gundamu
^Pretty much I've personally known some people who were in that type of relationship on both sides of the spectrum and it's not as business like as just "a guy paying a younger girl for sex". It's usually just an older single man/woman who are at a point in their lives where they good money and have a pretty disposable income but are lonely and seek companionship and a younger man/woman who seeks companionship as well but also happens to worse off financially. The sugar daddy/mommy gets that role because they're not only the providers in the relationship, but there's an age gap and they also usually shower their partner with gifts, making the relationship seem a bit more parental than a normal one in some ways. Sex is more than likely involved but what type of intimate relationship doesn't also involve sex? I can't really see that as prostitution :u Though I mean of course there are people who go out of their way to get into relationships like that too, but I don't think it's something black and white enough to just sit back and say "it's just prostitution"
yamadaed
Apr 25, 18 at 5:59pm
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bunniebun
hey there as someone who is a somewhat sugar baby i would like to add to this even if late (idk i literally just made an account) but a sugar baby and prostitute are two different things sugar babby sell time and effort love and companionship no their bodies, sugar dating is just another form of dating they are aware that you want to be taken care of in the forms of money knowledge whatever but they often want companionship. those concerned about them only wanting sex need to know i get more pervy questions and asks for nudes and sex on anime sites than sugar dating sites. a sugar baby may be called a gold digger but i dont necessarily believe that is true (bear with me) i personally believe that a gold digger is someone that manipulates someone who is rich nd is in a relationship solely for money their is a conflict of intentions while in a sugar relationship there is the removal of the manipulation in the initial sense a sugar baby can be a gold digger with no interests in the relationship or manipulative but they dont have to be the same. for anyone looking to be a sugar baby or daddy/mommy please do your research their are many ways you can be scammed dont be scared just stay alert and use your critical thinking. i also saw someone asking about sites so ill list a few i have personally tried with a few pros and cons seeking arrangements: one of the most popular sites, allows sugar daddies/mommies to verify they are who they say they are, free to use (at least for babies idk about daddies/mommies) with options to upgrade may get some scammers and it may take a while, no online only (but you could) sudy: babies and daddies/mommies can verify their accounts, free too use with the ability to upgrade, may have scammers and it may take a while whats your price: unlike the others name your price is not a dating site but a date site if you want quicker cash or quicker dates or just want to experiment i recommend it, it is a site that allows daddies to buy first dates. they or you can send offers for a certain amount to meet in a public place (stay safe in public) for a date they can also ask you to name a price and you can counter their price (do not accept $50 unless tight on cash or interested it is the lowest) the sites best quality is that once you accept an offer and begin to message the daddy they cant answer until they pay a fee to the site which eliminates the likely hood of scammers and proves they are serious about you. the only real downside is you can not do online sugardaddie: i do not recommend as babies have to upgrade their accounts to be able to use them so unless you are a sugar baby with money its useless please be respectful of others as they are consenting adults and stay safe :)
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