do you guys think im ugly?

You might not be that bad looking but you gotta turn that frown upside down and have more confidence in yourself because I can tell you that women love men with confidence. So really it sounds like you have to work on yourself before thinking of finding a partner. As for being a virgin, there's really no need to be so worried whatsoever - we see people becoming successes, getting married and all that at wildly varying lengths of time; life's not a race to beat others around you so don't treat it as such and go at whatever pace you're most comfortable with.

*Ahem* One thing I learned long ago about being on sites that are filled with people of origins from all around the world... don't judge someone's grammar unless you know English is their main language. Also, the OP is bullshit. Let's keep in mind that a person supposedly ashamed by his appearance has gladly put up a selfie for everyone to see, then took a complete stranger's advice and went to a gym (after saying he gave up going to the gym), was ridiculed by EVERYONE, including employees (which presumably was the same gym he claims to have already spent 3 months at), drove home to cry for an hour, and one of his male stalkers somehow tracked him down to continue harassing him... all in the span of THREE HOURS.

*Ahem* I was clearly just being a smart ass to someone who was blatantly attacking. We don't know ops situation (Probably a troll, but one can't be for sure, shit happens.). Gotta get that chip off your shoulder, it's quite unbecoming.(Again, that's me being a smart ass. No one normally talks like that or I don't. ;P)

Dream & wonder & curious about sex and feeling like ur gonna go crazy... I've been there :) It feels like the time will never come, feeling u r not attractive enough to get a girl or a girlfriend. My first was like 26. I've had a gf that lost virginity when she was 30. I've gone thru a lot too, and many of us may have gone thru a lot. If I were to give advice, I'd say WEAR A CONDOM and MAKE SURE U USE IT THE RIGHT WAY if u AND ur partner can't be responsible to raise a child(ren). And it's also about STD as well. Go with an easy hookup and you will risk it more than a proper partner who will be honest if he/she has been tested. With a good partner, you'll have good sex. With a bad partner, you'll have bad sex. Remember, it's about two (or more I guess... in some cases...) people. There's always some kind of feeling, be casual or deep in love. Rule of thumb to attract ladies? Shave, shower, brush ur teeth, don't smoke, dress properly, and smile. Even if ur not confident and thinking ur not attractive, accept yourself and be true to yourself. And, be HONEST. Someone might see me as a brag, but I'll say it once. Who am I to speak such? A guy who's had sex with more than 30 different ladies. Some with love, some with just for fun. Whew. Thanks for reading. Now, I need to go find a guy who'll take my "other" virginity.... HAHAHAHA٩( ᐛ )و Watch out booooyz! lol

Oh and... I'VE NEVER CHEATED ON ANYONE. I've been cheated tho..yea it sucked. Anyways, I'm not saying I know all of the answers nor saying that I'm 100% right. It's just from what I think from my experience. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Low-Confidence is a by product of Insecurity, Insecurity is nothing more than your brain tell you that you need to improve on something. Try working out and going to the Gym, If you got some muscle on you, It would compliment your facial structure well.