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Do you have people on your friends list that you really DON'T like talking to?

burninghalo
Someone who's just sort of there but when they message you, you're just like "meh, I don't feel like it"? Or you really only want to be online to talk to specific people and said person isn't one of them. And if so then why?
reclaw
I do have a couple of people in my friendlist that would fit that description. I added them, because they seemed cool, or impressed me in some way or the other. But it turns out every further conversation with them had a rather 'forced' feel to it. I kept them mainly because I feel bad for removing them, since I don't really dislike them, or hold a grudge against them. No need to remove them and cause grief in any way.
silhouettes_02
I'm more along the lines of Max's thinking. I mainly base my decision on activity though. If someone tries to add me and then is on once every three months or never again for that matter, I delete them. I tend to answer every message regardless though. It may not be immediate, but I get to it one way or another.
reclaw
If they are inactive, I sort them out, aswell. True dat.
burninghalo
I suppose for me it depends on how much talking we're doing as well. I do a lot of my chatting in PMs and also outside of MO but there are some peeps that just stop coming here and every once in a while I'll clean out people if they haven't been here in weeks or months. But I don't keep people on my list that I wouldn't talk to.
silhouettes_02
I generally don't do much communicating through PM. I've noticed that trend too though, people just kind of disappear. I may not be as active as I used to be but I generally sign on everyday though. Miss some of the older crew that used to be around lol.
burninghalo
Yeah, this place used to be so lively almost every night. Random convos every night, the Tor D thread had people making youtube videos and doing so many real life challenges, people would be on board for cons and shit. Now this place is dead most of the time.
axlex
I don't see the point of adding or keeping people that you don't want to talk to. If you don't feel like talking to them then it doesn't sound like you're friends at all.
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