Burying The Hatchet

Hi Mango, I don't know you too well. I'm just a friend of kids. I won't pretend to understand the situation but I have been through my share of drama. I just want to offer something to think about. Have you been able to forgive yourself and move on? I know that sounds like we do it automatically but being able to forgive ourself has a ripple effect which helps others forgive you and themselves. Just something to think about if you want to approach this from another angle. Hope it all works out.

im sad thats what your taking away from this situation mango

I probably dont have the right to mention my opinion here since I also wasnt the most mature a yeah and a half ago but by overflying that thread I would say without anymore colleteral damage or any damage at all I think the best part is for all to ignore this thread further on. For the "Main Protagonists" in this story I think they themselves have said enough to each other about this all fuss and any more opinions from the close or far sidelines arent helping at. So just lay this thread down here and like some people already did: Move on. Mistakes are made some more damaging some less, some were forgiven some not thats life at all better accepting what happened and cant be mend anymore and move on than trying to fix the unfixable. So let the Main parties Move on by themselves and dont drag each other anymore down this hole.

Mango, what I am saying is you can't make decisions for the others. You can't make them stop. All you can do and work with is your own feelings. If you're still getting upset then you're still holding on. That is okay. You can work on letting go. It's not flipping a switch. Our bodies and feelings are very sophisticated. To let go you got let those feelings pass through you can't stuff them away. Gradually they will dissipate if you work with them.

its good to keep a perspective on things this is the internet, these people dont know you and they never will, they arent important and with the compromising pictures? that is illegal, very illegal if someone on this site DARED to post them then you could face charges

Really-_- Can we stop bringing up stuff from like the dawn of dinosaurs MO