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otakueaterd
I know that a lot of us can agree that when it comes to dating it's an on-and-off process where sometimes dating can be difficult and sometimes dating can be fun and sometimes dating can be even crazy at the most points but when it comes to you there is a dislike and there's a like and dating... So in your own words what is your like and dislike of dating?
cac
CAC @cac commented on Dating
Jun 07, 18 at 7:03am
This is a hard one because I'd want to already sorta know the person before I'd be comfortable with going out with someone in a date. So it's kinda hard to me.
theycallmelo
Lo @theycallmelo commented on Dating
Jun 07, 18 at 6:40pm
It is, as you say, difficult to say what one like and dislikes with dating. For me, I prefer dates that is, either, out shopping or just at home, cooking food together. I think - seeing what stores and what people buy tell a lot of them. And it's a great way to see common interests. "Oh, you gonna buy that game? I love that game!" and so on. For making food home, it's chill and easy - to talk and cook together, just having fun. I also find it kind of hot (tmi)to cook together. So that are two dating stuffs I like! What I don't like? Dates with "r/NiceGuys" haha... Yes, it has happened.
otakueaterd
Jun 07, 18 at 7:04pm
Awesome
momoichi
Lamby @momoichi commented on Dating
Jun 07, 18 at 7:05pm
i like having a partner, someone whos there for me and someone i can be there for, i like taking care of them and making them feel happy, and i like when they do the same. it's nice having a constant. i dislike the trust aspect. having to trust them with your feelings and hope they dont break them. im terrible at break ups, when i become attached or fall in love thats it, itll never go back to how it was, so i cling to relationships to try and make it work. the vulnerability of opening up and risking the rejection its really best to become friends before you date, so you know each other well enough, i dont think just stepping into a relationship is smart
momoichi
Lamby @momoichi commented on Dating
Jun 07, 18 at 7:06pm
lel yeah you have to watch out for those "nice guys" instant red flag
reinhardt76
Baka @reinhardt76 commented on Dating
Jun 07, 18 at 7:53pm
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saber
Earl Grey @saber commented on Dating
Jun 07, 18 at 8:38pm
I like the idea of roaming parks, shops, and especially bookstores on dates. I typically don't do movie theaters - at least not early on. Watch out for the "nice guys". But also be aware of the r/theredpill and PUA types. They should be easier to spot as many go far out of their way to act "alpha".
foolish_otaku
Never been on a date, so I can't really say anything from experience. But I would like to know the person first before going out on a real date. Casually hanging out to get to know each other yeah. Roam around the mall, bookstore or going to a Starbucks to chitchat is also an option to get to know one another. As long as both of us are comfortable, then there we go. Least before any serious dating happens, like movie night dating. But that's me and my thought process. Ok, I have to ask since I've lived under a rock for some time. What exactly do you all mean by "Nice Guys", "r/theredpill" and "PUA types"? That and another reason I'm asking is I am someone who'll open and hold a door for a woman because that's how I was raised and influenced, manners and whatnot.
john_felix
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