Marriage OR Break Up

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-2RimFtGg6jk/VY7g1i2-DQI/AAAAAAAALLA/uu7x3PJFT7E/w500-h350/tumblr_n2sowxIv741tpkpxxo1_500.png So, I found this quote on the internet and actually thoughts about it. My question is: when you get into a relationship, what your initial thoughts before that? Do you really think to marry the person you are going to date or just hang around? Do or did you get into a relationship with a specific plan or does or did it happen randomly? Should we have more experience with the relationship in order to find a perfect one and if so, should it be acceptable to have dated many people or is it going to be considered inappropriate? Do you think break ups are all that bad and are marriage an ultimate goal of relationship? Tell me your opinions! Thank you! Cheers~

well the intentions are marriage but there is always that shadow of breaking up as someone from a one parent home i think marriage needs to be taken seriously and jumping into something like that is stupid for someone who has dated many people the one question there is commitment and if its there fault for the break ups id like to date for 5+ years before jumping into marriage, as really all marriage is is tax right off and hospital visitation, its not the end all be all

my intention for dating is marriage but like alllll my relationships its pretty much just hanging. date for now then break up. eventually i want one girl to stick around and we start a fam, but thats not happening right now so.

This is a good question and something I've wondered before, and curious to see people's responses. I'll post when I have time to write it out properly

Well I was engaged last year, but things didn't work out. Hmm I wouldn't say marriage is something I think about, cause I'd be fine being with someone who didn't believe in marriage. So I guess my intentions are to have a fulfilling relationship, for how ever long it decides to last. For break ups Honestly I try not to get too emotionally invested, it helps lol.

I often tell people that marriage is the preperation for divorce - HH the Dalai Lama 02/05/17 Marriage is funny, I am currently going through a divorce. I truly loved my wife, but became sick with diabetes and broke my neck (luckily I walk still) and it was to much for her to handle, she left me for that reason. Hearts and Emotions are fragile, like thoughts they come and they go with the passing of time, in some cases they transform into a higher state, other times they degrade or even vanish. They are like breath, They are like a moment. a breath and moment come and go, arise and transform so there is always a vulnerability, I say choose to be vulnerable there is strength in vulnerability.

I'm not scarw of either of thise things, beside the women will probably takw on my stuff. It never really bothered me at all