Lost someone important

I have a friend whom i was very close to online. However , we came to a point we both argued alot since december. I tried to make things better by making cards or craft things to show that i care. But it didn't help no matter what i try. She will not let go of our arguements even though she said "we are fine". I expressed how i felt and she decided it was best to let go of the friendship. It was hard and it hurts alot to let go someone i care alot about. I had to be brave and knew it was for the best for both of us.. so i had to let her go as well. But the feeling of lost and pain its overwhelming and i need time. So if anyone have any anime or games to recommend me ( i love the neptunia series) or would like to be my friend and talk it will help.

You were whole before coming into that friendship, and you still are, even if it doesn't feel that way. I can't say anything that will numb the pain you feel, but many of us have been through similar things or experienced many different types of losses, we can understand and relate. And I'm sure, we also have anime and games to suggest that have helped us through these transformative cycles as well. So you're in the right place.

Hmm, pick me up anime...the first series of Clannad (don't watch the second while depressed), Skip Beat!, Chobits, those are a few nice ones.

Hi Uzume. Sorry about losing Histoire. You'll find Umio, Nepgear and Neptune as your close friends. Shit aside. I too lost 2 of my good friends sort of. Well the other one is on "wait" but I am 80℅ I cannot look at him with bright colors. In return i gained something else I can relate too. She's my crush so rip me What I am asking you to do is fill your emotions with anger. Look at her she clearly doesn't care about the friendship you held dear. This is one sided. Let it go. You are hurt or someone who doesn't care a slightest about you or the friendship anymore? How can you continue to live with this.

Thanks everyone who replied. Well.. I know that everyone will have people who come and go. But this person was special to me. She was the first person i made a card etc. Constant arguments destroy it.

I had kind of a similar experience before. It happened with less talk and we knew each other offline and online kinda. In my case we didn´t have an argumentation just she just didn´t respond anymore and left without saying anything which was really sad back then. So I can relate and understand it took me some time to get over it. Good luck to you

When you realize you lost someone who you put in all your effort into caring, knowing, and loving....not only do you lose them...you lose yourself as well. Neco Arc Yo 12-3-20xx

Just remember your own special place. Reattach the pieces that you have lost amd make anew. Think of it this way: This pain hurts...but it will heal and make me mentally stronger and one day I will look back and laugh as I have walked past this quick sand that once almost dragged me down. You are not alone. There are many similar or exactly same people like you that goes through this ordeal.