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Do you/have you ever left someone without saying anything?

burninghalo
Well its about closure for the other person too is it not? Or are they not worth the effort?
reclaw
I think they are always worth the effort. Because there is almost no effort. You can take ten damn minutes to tell them why you do not want anything to do with them. People who just "ghost" others (if everything was seemingly going fine beforehand) are really trashy. Of course it depends on how long you have been in contact with each other.
burninghalo
To an extent i agree Max. I wouldn't call anyone who does it trashy but the act itself is a bit inconsiderate. Especially considering its the kind of thing most likely to hurt the pwople who most care about you.
reclaw
Welp, in my mind it is very trashy. I mean if the only reason for the ghosting is a breakup or something similar. That's just weak. Of course there sometimes are assholes who really provoke you into just ignoring them.
burninghalo
Id agree if the person was dangerous or a threat to you but otherwise it wont kill you to just tell them.
infernalmonsoon
I've never done it myself but it's happened to me a couple of times before - I never understood why people do that though, honestly I would respect the person so much more if they just straight up told the person they're dating they want to break it off and leave it at that.
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