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pokecj42
Aug 06, 16 at 5:24pm
It's not about me getting rejected. It's about me making it worse for her, so girls, would it make it worse for her or possiblyou better?
alanzd
Aug 06, 16 at 5:25pm
Well, it depends. From my experience, the question that should be asked before coming to a decision is: does she like anyone else?
cuzaku
Aug 06, 16 at 5:27pm
Well recently i confessed to someone and got rejected, sure it hurts alot when that happens but it's better than having false hope etc :/ besides if you kept your feelings a secret and the girl got with someone else you'd hurt yourself that way too. Do what you think is best. Confess if it makes you happy, prepare yourself for both outcomes :) She could like you back or you could get rejected, but if you do everyone on here will comfort you :3 I don't know if that helps or not xD
yaasshat
Aug 06, 16 at 5:29pm
Here's the deal, be there for her. Period. Maybe ask her how a relationship would make her feel. But, above all, if you care about her, be there for her support, even if she's not ready to have something more than a friendship with you..
pokecj42
Aug 06, 16 at 5:30pm
Thx guys. I'll think about it and then decide. More advice is welcome though! So I first will find out if she likes anyone else, then maybe tell her. Whatever happens, I'll tell you guys who it is later
alanzd
Aug 06, 16 at 5:35pm
Oh is it here on MO? That wasn't expected haha
pokecj42
Aug 06, 16 at 5:36pm
Yeah it is XD
wertingman
What Yasshat Said be for her regardless. If she's going through things right now comforting her might help out alot. On other note, don't hold it in. Confess your feelings and get it off your chest. Better to say I did than what if. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
alanzd
Aug 06, 16 at 5:39pm
Not that it will do anything, but I wish you luck!
pokecj42
Aug 06, 16 at 5:40pm
Thx guys! It means a lot to me
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