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beyozenith
Dec 23, 21 at 7:34pm
Yandere Panda, that's an interesting thought lol
kameiya
You're jealous but act like you're not while your facial expressions betrays you? If I ever do get a bf then I'm certain I'll have jealousy come with it, but I also need to learn restraint to prevent that jealousy from overtaking me. I need a legit reason to torture and kill.
yaasshat
Dec 23, 21 at 7:55pm
There's a healthy and to be expected sort of jealousy. That's natural. However, the all consuming, irrational, controlling portions are not. We laugh and giggle "yandere", but do you truly know how abusive and cruel you'd have to be? Jealousy has a VERY fine line between abuse and if you're not careful, it can own you.
kameiya
What's usually the line of unhealthy, other then the you are my toy jealousy, from healthy jealousy? I don't want to become a horrible person who gets controlled by jealousy. I don't want suffering like that.
hell_hound7
Meh as much as you guys say that there really is no way i can change it. At this point i feel as though its just something that will always happen. Also abusive lol where did you get that from?
choicemoonbee
I only get jealous if he sticks a lock on his phone if his phone unlock i dont give a shit then...but then if he puts a lock on it just outta the blue....oh...oh...noooo...nooooo nooo noo noo noo nonoonnnonononononononononononononooonononononononNOOOOO!!!!HEHEHE..NOOO!!!!That awfully sussssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I'MM LET HIM KNOW HE HAS FIVE MINS TO UNLOCK HIS PHONE..no matter the excuse is haha xD...i dont give a crap everything else im okay with yes have girl friends yes go in call yes play games with other girls yes get on discord chat with chick sure okay make friends go make friends...but the moment the moment you stick a lock on ur phone then that when the fight starts.
yaasshat
Dec 23, 21 at 8:00pm
@Kameiya Do you truly not know what healthy/unhealthy jealousy is? Edit: See above me for a glimpse into unhealthy, at least what was said. @hell_hound7 Where'd you get that I even implied, let alone called you abusive?
xenorai
Dec 23, 21 at 8:01pm
I think everybody gets jealous to some degree occasionally. Goes beyond relationships. There are healthy and moderate versions of this. However there are unhealthy ones too like being controlling or getting pissed when they talk to the opposite sex.
kameiya
I didn't say you implied I was like that. I was just asking what your version of abusive and unhealthy jealousy is. I could have worded it bad. Please don't take offense yass. It's not what I said. So far my basic knowledge of unhealthy is: He isn't allowed to be around other females if he's only just being their friend. A female friend might also be helpful in giving relationship tips so he can better himself for us. Same if I have a male friend who can do the same for us. Another is having a crush that isn't your bf and become insanely jealous that he is flirting with other women. He isn't my bf so I see that as unhealthy too. Honestly, I have not had much experience with jealousy except for that one time I really screwed up with a guy cuz of my jealousy.
yaasshat
Dec 23, 21 at 8:21pm
@kameyia I asked panda that and not you
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