Random thoughts...

I agree @Verucassault i know women and other races have problems too. However, anytime a man vents about issues that men face. it just seems like our issues are dismissed or we're told to man up. i just don't get it anymore. how come others are allowed to vent but anytime a man vents about things, men need to walk in and assume we don't accept responsibility or mock us. maybe women get that too from other women. i don't know. i don't deny its possible. its just frusterating

@lilyazawa OH MY SHIT I SWEAR TO GOD That's not ONLT MEN. Woman sometimes have their problems dismissed and are told to have a more confidence and stuff like that it's not only men like really stop saying that !

@liloreo maybe the problem in society isn't gender based then but people automatically dismissing people who have problems. like i said, i agree women may face the same issues. if you do, then you understand how annoying it is.

@liloreo I think gender roles are important due to it being something based in biology. Granted things right now are life in easy mode for virtually everybody. The average person doesn't have to hunt for food or grow it, we can just go to a super market and get it. We don't have other nations or tribes constantly raiding our villages and neighborhoods and don't need the average person to be a warrior. We don't have to build our own emergency shelters when horrible weather is coming or when the environment is being a dick, most of us live somewhere that is warm and out of the rain and if not we have access to one. However that is not to say that all of this can't be taken away. Horrific events like a supervolcano, collapse of society or a Carrington event wipes out every electronic could put us in the state of Medieval Europe or some sort of Mad Max feudal society again. As much as we would like to deny it, there are roles that men are physically adept for given sexual dimorphism having men be weight for weight stronger and faster than women in general. You will be able to find exceptions to the rule, but these are relatively rare. Ultimately gender roles don't play too much of a role in a near utopian society that many countries live in right now, it is something more cultural than anything else. However those who abide by gender roles would be in a clear advantage in a collapsed society. As history has showed us, the tribes that kept women out of danger were successful, the ones who did not were wiped out. Once again there are exceptions, but exceptions are not the rule. This society we live in is extremely new. Hasn't even existed for 100 years. There are still people around that remember having to grow their own food because the market wasn't a thing where they lived. Where a Christmas gift was a knitted piece of clothing and an orange and they were happy to get it. It was only in the last 80 years that things were advancing to a point where everybody had what they needed. Before that the gender roles was one of the most important things for a local community to thrive.

Boiling lobsters I started wondering, why is it that women are so reluctant to network, to ask for help and to help other women. In a search of answers, I can across an interesting fact about lobsters. When you put male lobsters in a pot of boiling water, you absolutely must put a lid on it because the males will make little bridges on top of each other and try to help each other escape. When boiling female lobsters on the other hand, lid on the pot is not required. Once the females realize that they are in a pot of boiling water, they hold each other down, so no one will be able to escape. If I’m going to die, we are all going to die. ^^^^^^^women v women ... even the ones that are supportive are glad when you fail sometimes. Essentially at some point your girlfriend will be a frenemy..

@dyadka_yar I agree and disagree with that some gender roles are stupid I'm sorry if I offended you by saying all of them some are nesscary like bathrooms and etc and family at most. (Btw do you know in a lot of jobs woman still get paided less than a man ?! Because of their gender ) @lilyyazawa Yes thank you I was about to go insane it depends int the people you are around and how you take it beacuse it's not gender it's many factors

@veruassault That's like........wow