Random thoughts...

to be fair if someone is morbidly obese they can have the best personality and you just wont be attracted to them enough to find them a potential romantic partner

The reality is it's all random. There never has been a set rule for anything. I've had a stable job and a house for years but someone I knew that went to prison had 3 women regularly dating him and all produced children for him while he was bumming me for cash and a place to stay. - Can't say he had confidence either. Dude was manic depressed as hell.

maybe but usually when you have no confidence you aren't getting many men or many women. your example is probably more an anomaly than an actual common thing. sure, unconfident people can get lucky but people usually like confident people. looks are the things that typically get you in the door.

yeah, the confidence thing actually has a lot to do with psychology because humans are social creatures we are more inclined to believe others through physical cews if you think your hot and act confident about it, others will subconsciously think the same (that was a bad explanation but it is a real thing xD)

You would be surprised. As a 30 year old man I can tell you it never makes sense who pairs up with who. My mother was once a Catholic nun if that tells you anything of my origin story.

whoa thats interesting whyd she leave the covent?

I do agree that there is someone for everybody so sure a really unconfident man/woman may hit lucky strides and find people, but if you don't have confidence and can't really talk with people and don't really look good, you're doing yourself no favors.

whyd she join to begin with? becoming a nun of priest usually involves being inclined to remove your free thinking ways (not that that's a bad thing, i commend all priests [that arent pedos] and nuns for going through such a commitment just for faith)