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@Puppy, what you say is true, we might not have experienced the true pain of heartbreak, but to live is to experience, if you live and never experience love, that to me feels like the ultimate waste of time. Even if things don't work out in the end, everything up to that point will have made it worth the pain. Also sorry for helping turn the thread into a depressive rant haha, this is why we're single guys!!

Since we are in this topic. I believe if you fall for somebody and it didn't work out, hopefully you learn something. I don't think any relationships that failed is a waste as long as you learn and grow from that experience. Hopefully you learn along the process of healing about yourself and what do you think you can improve on. Nobody is perfect everyone has flaws and its just a matter of how you work it out together I think. Don't rush into love but don't lose the opportunity as well. I kinda believe this saying that usually applies in relationships which is "It takes a chance to fall in love , a commitment to stay in love, and a choice to fall out of love". Hopefully it helps..

If you love/like somebody secretly, let them know your feelings(before that, you had better think why you love/like them heh), meanwhile get ready to accept whatever outcomes~

@Puppy, I personally don't think anyone should stay in an unhappy relationship just because of kids or money. If you are unhappy, you should do everything you can to make yourself happy. There will always be some kind of regret, be it that you didn't stay with them or that you didn't end it sooner, you'll never completely avoid the pain. The emotional trauma is the worst part, but you have to move on if you want to try and be happy.