Would you leave your country for a person?

It would depend on where. I'd move to Japan, The Bahamas, Spain, France, pretty much any place that I've been to before. But up and move to like, Australia for a gf? hell no. Now, if I'm dating her and she comes to visit and I visit her first? That'll go from a hell no to a strong maybe. But not up and move to a country that I've never been to before. Hell, I didn't do that when I moved out to go to college.

I'd say the same, Kichigai. I'd definitely want to have some connections before moving to a new country anyways. Just in case the girl decides to bail on you for some reason.

i agree with blood cause i mean you can break up at any time and now your in a foreign country by yourself. i would visit her if anything and if she wants to move in so bad she can come to me...cause i at least know that if we break up i wont be the one getting kicked out and left alone. i would help her get on her feet of course not gonna abandon her

Got out of hand, is not like the people that said yes have less comprehension of this situation. For myself, I took for granted stuff that were obvious and not worth mentioning, for example: Do you truly know this person? What about if they are a trap? Do you know the country they live at? The culture? The language? The situation they're facing economically and socially speaking? The politics? Etc. Of course these take a big factor on this but considering I wouldn't be dumb enough to let myself fall in love with someone in a country I have no idea to how even get there I just don't consider these questions at all. I, unlike some people, wouldn't risk myself to go somewhere I truly don't know where I'm landing. As I've said before, I like to stand on the strongest rock, so this sandy business is of no appeal to me. If none of these questions asked before are answered with a negative response, then why not try it? I'm not stupid enough to put all my future inside of the hands of one person, if I get dumped, who's going to say I'm not going to make it by myself? Being so helpless as to worry about such a thing is something people should check out on themselves. I, myself, only would move if the country has any possibilities for me to fight for myself alone, depending on another person solely for this is clearly stupid. I don't know you all but if I'm going out with someone outside of my country is to help me emerge out of this and if they can't help, same shit, I'd help myself. It's just a matter of preferences and strength to me.

I really respect the effort and thought that went into in your response, Mariahaise! You have very logical approaches to the situation.

Yeah leaving wouldn't be a problem but it would take time like I'm not leaving to a place where no one understands me so i'll move when I learn the basics of the new land.

I would depending on the location, but I would obviously need to really like this person to abandon my home. I think as far as countries with foreign languages go, Japan is the only one I would be comfortable with being I speak a decent amount of Japanese and have actually experienced the culture. However, I'm not entirely sure what I would do for work, it's still a country I would have to really think about regardless. Any other country where English is spoken I don't think I would mind at all. If someone lives in a country I'm not very comfortable with I wouldn't really even bother considering a relationship. I don't think it's fair to be so one sided on where to live, it should be discussed. Would I miss my family? Aside from a couple holidays my family barely interacts with each other, there is always the internet to keep in touch. My friends I would probably miss... but again there's the internet (unless the apocalypse happens). I was actually willing and planning on how I would move to another state for my ex girlfriend before things happened. I know that's not as extreme as moving out of the country, but I guess my point is that someone has to move in a long distance relationship and I would gladly volunteer for the right person.