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Would you date someone with a bad history/emotional background?

jtibbs
Not to be disrespectful to you, but maybe you should calm down. I've noticed you bouncing between threads and it looks as though you're posting based on your emotions right now. I'm aware of which account previously belonged to you and somewhat aware of the circumstances that happened with it, but if you keep going at this rate you'll probably just end up back where that ended.
megitsune
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jtibbs
Well unfortunately the world is a shitty place and you can't just dump your emotions on other people like that. I can't really respond to how you've been treated here because I wasn't here when it happened.
megitsune
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jtibbs
You're jumping into threads and posting passive aggressive comments that are clear attacks aimed at men in general. Its not at all constructive. I'm just saying if you don't dial it back, you're probably going to end up suspended again.
megitsune
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jtibbs
Well thats not true because I've openly argued against some of those people you've likely argued with before on their beliefs towards women. I've never spread a lie about someone, because I'm not a gossipy teenager and never have been. I give respect and expect the same in return. I respect everyone, including transexuals like yourself, but it has to go both ways. You don't get my respect just for being a transexual.
maxisjoe
In my opinion, it's completely fine if : -They atoned for whatever they did wrong -Will seek mental help to become happy in the future -They want to be better at every small and big aspect in their life while not forgetting about their health and time To be honest, even if they murdered someone, I wouldn't care as long they have a good reason behind it and seeked forgiveness for their sins, mental health is something that not all humans can control as well so if they had a problem I would still stand beside them and help them until they become better and be happy forever.
kameiya
IT really depends on how bad the background is. If they killed in cold blood or took advantage of someone then I most definitely wouldn't date them. If they said something cruel based on their emotions or got caught stealing an item, something like that and they have learned and become a better person since then I would date them if I can connect with them.
leo_ss
Really depends on the person, and what the past is. I already have dated someone with quite the past, I will not give their name, nor the past. But it's basically as bad as it can get for trauma. They were also Bipolar, and had depression. As long as the person doesn't let the issues control their life, Then I'm good. I've been through some crap myself, Seen death in person too early for my tastes. Made me grow up fast. But I don't let it turn me into a depressed kid who cries every night, or let it be my identity. A past is that. A past. If you can move forward, Or need help moving forward. Then That's all good. I've been a personal therapist to over a half dozen friends so. For past crimes it depends on intent. What was the intent of the crime, and what pushed them to do it. However murder or.. other acts to a child, I could never forgive. But that's because I have a soft spot for the kiddos.
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