Minor and Adult Dating

^I don't think this is enough reason for it but I'll back panda up on what he's saying. The teenager years are the most influential for people. That girl maybe something now but she also may change completely in within a year. Kids in between 12 to 16-18 years old are all like this. Not saying adults can't change still the difference in how influenced can be a person depends on their experiences. He's an adult but she's yet nowhere near being as mentally stable as he is.

What a weird discussion. He should be smart enough to question the relationship and see how it is going I never met someone who is still holding a relationship since he/she was 14 I am pretty sure they will break up in the future.

I'm really interested to see what red masque's take on this subject is. My take on it is if you take the standards of today's society out, then it isn't really a big deal. It's more common in other countries than it is in the U.S. They are only four years apart. Who knows, she could be really mature and he is really immature. I dated a 16 year old when I was 18, and still I was a little nearvous. If you break up with her and she is evil she could press charges on you. I wouldn't want to mess with all that.

Thanks you guys and girls for your thoughts. But people shouldn't say age is just a number when it comes to a minor. A minor's mind haven't fully developed yet, well it depends. Like for example, decision making.

Yeah, the bible doesn't matter on this situation because it can't change a person's decision or anything, regardless of them being a minor or an adult. Sorry if I offended you or anyone who's religious.

It purely depends on the situation and the nature of that guy... However considering pure probability, I would say most likely it wont end up as a good idea for that 14 yr old chick..