Unpopular opinions

the problem is people develop feelings faster than others this sounds like itll lead to hurt feelings i tried the whole "having fun" thing, trying to hang out with some dudes i liked but it ended up badly feelings hurt, ect not a good idea i think, even if you explain to them your intentions

dating multiples is selfish though its basically stringing people along until you're satisfied and then dumping them like some sick dating game show sure, dating one person can backfire, but thats why your ment to slow cosby (aka not jump into things, start out slow) hot cosbys tend to end in heartbreak

What does one do when they fall in love with someone who has more in common with, but can’t get out of their current relationship??

srsly how did dating multiple ppl become an option... maybe I'm oldschool but shouldn't you find the one? ofc you gonna fail everyone you date till then....

if you fall in love while in a relationship then its clear youv fallen out of love with your s.o and should break up anyways even if you do play the field that doesnt mean your gonna find your "soulmate" youll probz break up with them anyways the old fashion way is better imo

I feel like part of the "essence" of liking someone is that you want to be around them more. Makes sense because its a positive feeling and we all want to feel good. When you like someone and only have eyes for them, but they have eyes for multiple, it could easily seem like they don't like you as much as you like them. After all, you like them a whole lot and you only care about them. It could easily make you feel like they don't like you as much as you like them. This is usually when all the insecurities about not being good enough come flooding in, and you just mega turned off and can stop liking them. At least, thats what happens with me

@OM the only answer is pls breakup with the person first before you start sth new it will hurt both of you, but it would hurt the other person more if they found out you cheated on them...