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WHY ARE PPL SO DAMN FAKE!!!??

animeboy
I'm seriously really angry right now... Each time I show any sign of interest in someone especially those of the opposite sex & each time I'd message them whatsoever I get no response,just read. I try not to come off creepy by saying gimme your number and I usually show great enthusiasm. I always have to do the footwork to start a conversation and I have to be lucky just to get it to start. Getting it to keep going is a completely different story. I'm always the nice guy who'll help you whenever you need it or comfort you when your down,Yet I'm not Overly nice by putting someone on a pedestal that's pathetic I have some pride you know >_> Yet my efforts are always in vain. I guess I'll be single forever since I'm 24 and never been in a relationship. I wish for a change someone was heavily interested in talking to me Sigh......
no1famous73
You just gotta be patient with type of stuff, or you'll just rush in and get you're heart broken, In my personal experience girls seem to overlook/ take advantage of the nice guy arch-type but that doesn't mean they're always like that. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places, especially since this is such a flaky site in the first place. Good luck with your search!
otakun3rd
I know what you mean. There have been two girls that I have tried to have serious relationships with. One was a long-distance relationship. We are still friends, but that's it. The other girl led me on and then lied to me to get out of going to Youmacon with me. I am still a bit bitter about it, and rarely talk to her anymore. I am 23 and wonder if I'm ever going to get a break in life. Things may change, though - I wore my Naruto shirt to McDonalds and one of the employees mentioned that her daughter was really in to animé. It took me a minuet to realize what was going on as my shit is blue with the Hidden Leaf Village logo on it, and that's what she recognized. She had me send her a friend request in Facebook (I was there with one of my laptops) and said she would mention me to her daughter... We'll see...
nayru
Mar 22, 12 at 4:18pm
I don't think a lack of response equals being fake and I also agree in the fact that patience would help you. Just by showing interest it doesn't mean people are forced to get along with you. It is more complex, but if you keep being enthusiastic you might eventually attract someone who likes you for who you really are. Don't be disappointed, you are a stranger to them, those things can develop in the most unexpected places and moments. Do you care for every single stranger you meet each day? I say wait for your chance and have fun meanwhile! Just don't obsess about it, if you are really a good person it will be appreciated eventually there's no need to rush. It doesn't lead to any good most of the time.
rafaelsanzio
Bro I REALLY want to help you but you were unironically using a creppypasta tails pfp in 2012....and you were 24.... Hope you found someone tho
secretagentboi
Bro said he tries not to come across as creepy and then comes across as creepy
forgetmenot
Yeah I'm a fake too. I'm not Curly, I'm Mohawky, and I get robbed like every week, and not in the fun sexy way that I'm accustomed to. Also I have an amazing handlebar mustache.
chocopyro
I feel you, though I relinquished any sense of entitlement for my kindness way back in college. Just remember, 24 is when women tend to mature mentally. As such, men between the ages of 18-24 tend to have a tough time going about it. Once you get over that hump yourself, it gets a little easier to get attention. Now personally I've given up on dating and romance for a different reason (I'm not exactly in a mentally healthy frame of mind, and haven't been since my twin bro died). But something that I've found which has helped me to get more attention from women in general is to approach them with friendship rather than romance. Less of an energy drain on their part. From there, put your skills and virtues out on display. If you're fast and agile, invite her to a trampoline park. Lot of people don't know those exist, and would love a chance to bounce around and waste energy. If you're strong and sturdy, choose a fun activity that alines with her interests which will let you show that off. And if you're kind. Show off your empathic ability. Women don't have a lot of patience these days. And men are running out of it too. If one place isn't giving you results, broaden your search.
snakee_dubs
Tiger give it time and work on yourself. Someone will come to you eventually. Everyone has different preferences in men. Just be kind and yourself.
shyguy777
I like when people say give it time xD someone will come and your other half will show up xP it’s all bs people my question to you is do you go out ? Maybe the bar social places ? The wait game works for those that go outside…. No point in waiting if you never leave the house. How will your other half know that you exist? And the online game comes with a risk cause you never know if that person is real or just some scammer trying to get your info or take your money. The other question is are you lonely? If so that can confuse you in dating cause it can make you think this girls nice comment is her trying to start something when all it was was a comment…
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