is something wrong with me?

I know ive been guilty of being too impatient in the past, but its not like women are knocking on my door either asking to go out with me. Is there anything i can do to get myself out there without looking desperate or lonely? I mean my usual hangout is a media store, and theyre already sick of seeing me there...

Find social clubs, regular bars/clubs and local activities/events that interest you and attend/participate. Live your life and enrich it with experiences and enjoy it doing whatever it is you do. It is not being selfish to be working towards your goals be it work or education or your body & mind. If you are focused and working towards those things and start achieving those little goals towards a greater one and believe in yourself, and trust in yourself, you will find genuine natural self confidence and inner strength. It will then gradually have subtle effects on the way you carry yourself and go about things in the world and that will attract people who value such things. It will impact your work, friendships, and love life in positive ways in the long run. I do not know you well enough to know if something is wrong with you but I doubt it. Others have similar frustrations and you are not alone in that regard. I can say if you lament having nothing you want but are not actively working to attain it it is time to change that.

Do not give up, but do not fall too quick. It has to be something you both truly want otherwise it will be over before it began. There is not anything wrong with you, just be yourself and that person will come along.

http://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/35078325.jpg Jk. But on a serious note, It all depends what you're looking for. You can find good girls at a bar if that's something you like, but there, you have to me much more extroverted to approach a girl. Online is easy, but the distance quickly becomes an issue. Try Barnes and noble. bring your laptop and sit for a while. Find a girl you think has some common interest and start talking. Of course, don't be a creeper about it, but you know.. You can do it.