a broken heart

wow. i thought i was an ass hahahaha. people who say move on and get over it are people who dont know what pain another person is feeling. and sure you may of had a break up and lost a few friends and you may know a little bit of being alone.... but you dont know the true pain of it at all. because even if you broke up with someone i know full well that someone has come up and asked you awww are you ok and crap like that because your one of them cute girls. you'll always have guys crawling for you no matter what.... so you'll be fine in about a day or so because you know you have choices for other guys. someone thats been alone with no friends for years with no one to talk to this how they let there feelings out. i know someone like a cute girl is never going to understand this at all. so you'll never understand the true meaning of hurt or pain. and for the record pity does not work to heal a broken heart. saying (oh dont worry it will be ok) and other stuff like that. it would take me half a year to try to explain this and even if i did i dont think you Mira48, and Mop would understand anyway. i bet what i said above is already confusing you lol

Not even close. I've been called every name in the book, I have no support system from most of family and I've never had a true friend. Believe me zoned I know what it's like to be lonely. And honestly most people have called me ugly straight to my face. in short I actually have a lot in common with abrokenheart I just choose to deal with it differently. I wasnt trying to start a war on here, and for that I apologize, but I won't take back anything I've said.

BrokenHeartGoddess has to act like she wants confort. Otherwise it's just a lot of P&M that no one wants to hear. I had an engagement ring handed back to me once and "Everybody Plays the Fool" has been my theme song more than once. I know the pain that makes you want to just quit. But I also know that you have to move on. I am not trying to be mean but she has just about taken over this site with her drama an rejection of all efforts to comfort her. I am with Mira48. I stand by what I have said.

BHG, if you read this message, know this: otakus are people too...we would like to think we can be above all the hate that some people have toward otakus, but we still persecute each other's humanity. I suppose what I'm getting at is otaku are only human, and a lot of us are misunderstood or even scared of ourselves. Who really knows how you feel? Finding the answer to that may take forever, but there will be an answer. Even if that answer is: No one. Since so many otakus before us have made their journey and many more still will reach their journey's end, you could say that the one's that felt alone had the most individuals who knew the same existance as you did at this point. The only thing for sure is you live 'til you die.

lol, forgive me at this point I cannot help but laugh. There is no point in being upset with BrokenHeartGoddess. First of all, if you don't want to hear it don't read it. Second, she has started a process to move on and she has a plan. But you guys read the thread and awaken bad memories again and again. Just drop it. If she doesn't post anything new on it. Let it be. People that are hurt badly usually react differently few actually talk about. Talking to people is the best anyone can do when they are hurt. Because when you are damage you don't always make the right decisions. My self and a few others have helped her along the road and we think she is doing great. She will be moving back with her mom soon and she has job now. She will be going to cons again and she is getting her self out. Once she regains her interest and starts having fun the rest will follow. I my self am on the same road. So what you say guys just post back and apologies for lashing out at someone. That was out of line. People should not encourage someone to hurt them selves no matter what. Is plain wrong no matter what the situation is.