Asexuality and dating them?

well it is a joke in the asexual groups that you'd rather marry yourself than other people... xD soooo SURE IF YOU'D RATHER USE YOUR HAND THAN ANOTHER WOMAN OR MAN. SURE. why not. and neko. thatd be very noble of you. I'm sure they'd appreciate that.

but in all honesty, my last relationship I had 5 years with I only had sex once or twice. like I said before....... Prior to that relationship I dated a nympho and we had it every chance we got. I can have sex 5 times a day.....or never I usually let the lady lead. I hate cheaters and hate to be cheated on, never did.

Im asexual and i have never been attreacted to anyone really BUT being a guy, girls call me BS. I had a gf and she asked why i never made a move on her. And my answer was "no sex before mariage' and more reliogus crap in short a lie. How do you tell your girl she DONT turn you on? She broke up with me when i said i was asexual, claimed i was lieing that im really "in the closet"(gay). That was my second to last realtionsihip. So now its just somthing im up front with. But women STILL think im only saying that so i can sneak into thier pants but W/E....

Some people don't understand and it may just be we need to date someone who is asexual like ourselves. As for cheating it varies with people as does the meaning of normal or beauty. My opinion is different from yours but thats what makes us different. As long as we respect those with differing opinions I think were all good. And six i'm sorry that happened. It is most definitely something you need to be up front with someone about. if they aren't even willing to accept it then its probably best not to waste your time. sad as it is. Honestly I wouldn't find it complimenting to have a "move" made on me. and for me it's plain awkward if someone says " oh you turn me on" boyfriend or not i'd probably slowwwllly back away and hide for a million years but thats just me. once again people are different but now you know what types of people to not date.