What do you Want & Don't Want from your Marriage Life?

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-Together Forever? Ideally. -Wanna make cute babies? How many do you want? or...don't want to have a kids? Sure I guess one or two, But only in a situation where we'd be ready and able to support them. -What about Career & Time management? Not much of an issue to me, but it'd suck if they were never around I suppose. -How will you manage family's financial? we'll find a way? or...any other things you want/dont want? For her to let herself go as soon as she has a ring like many do I guess. -Is that important to have a short-term and long-term plan for our marriage life? sure Do you think divorce is the best solution to solve any big problem? or Will you try your best to save your marriage? I think if you even consider the possibility of divorce before going into a marriage as a way to solve a problem, you probably shouldn't be getting married in the first place.

Together Forever Whilst this may be a possibility for some relationships it not something that should be expected. If anything I would cherish it while its there and grow from it when its not, Do I want kids in general? Perhaps, but that's more in terms with my partner since I don't have a high interest myself but am willing to dependent on said factors. What about Career and time etc.. Its important for both partners to have a life outside of the relationship to provide a balance in the relationship. There are exceptions to this rule dependent on the sexual orientation and how they want a relationship bdsm for a example but for the most part having a career and such is good for both partners. How will you manage familys finances. The short answer I wont, it will be a mutual thing provided by both partners, If we do have some form of combined income it will be shared equally and openly discussed between both to a fair extent, if not then it will just be a matter of each partner regulating their income to afford certain things that they need, if it comes down to just one person paying im sure their are compromises though, Or any other thing you want or don't want, Openly discussing in a neutral position, better to be aware of the other side is it not. Is that important to have a short term or long term plan for our marriage. While its good to plan ahead, I wont expect something to last forever blindly since that would be unfair expectations for both parties considering the numerous variables that could lead to said relationship falling. However I will not view it negatively either give it my best so to speak as only my personality contends to rather then set limits. Do you think divorce is best solution to solve issues, Not necessarily it depends on the issues at hand sometimes its just a requirement if the relationship has enough issues, other times its not it all comes down to how each person can handle their emotional concerns and issues in said relationship. Will you let it stir and not say anything, always express your concern in the relationship, and the list goes on. Will you try your best to save your marriage That highly depends if I feel as a person and that the other person is happy proceeding to solve those issues and continue said relationship. It would be wrong in a sense to continue something that is toxic just to hold on to the standard that its what your supposed to do, which is a long rooted notion that promotes just enduring rather then moving on if both connections are not working properly. Theres my response/

-Together Forever? I think every couple wants to be together forever xD. -Wanna make cute babies? How many do you want? or...don't want to have a kids? I would like to have atleast 3. 2 girls and a boy :3 -What about Career & Time management? We should atleast spend time together for about twice a week if were free. -How will you manage family's financial? Probably things that we need goes first and try to not spend on things that are not that important. Do you think divorce is the best solution to solve any big problem? or Will you try your best to save your marriage? I will try to find the right one of course xD Its not the only solution and its better to work things out :3

-Together Forever? If I can help it. -Wanna make cute babies? How many do you want? or...don't want to have a kids? Never thought about it much. But if she really wants kids and we can make it work, then yeah. -What about Career & Time management? Well we gotta pay the bills somehow. But it's healthy to balance that with together time and personal time. -How will you manage family's financial? Bills are paid with a joint account. Then we each maintain a side account for personal spending. or...any other things you want/dont want? I think your relationship before and after marriage should be the same. The person you wanted to marry was that individual as they were before you were married. If they suddenly feel they have to change because you're married, they are no longer that person you wanted to be with. Just stay yourself I guess. -Is that important to have a short-term and long-term plan for our marriage life? There's that saying: if you wanna make god laugh, make plans. Do you think divorce is the best solution to solve any big problem? or Will you try your best to save your marriage? If only one person wants to save the marriage, part ways before things become toxic. Otherwise if both of us want to save the marriage then there's nothing to fear.

This sounds like fun! -Together Forever? Yes. I'm not the one to back out of a relationship when the vow has been made. -Wanna make cute babies? How many do you want? or...don't want to have a kids? YES. Although, do to contrary belief, my sister and I do have our quarrels. But, I want my own kids, I want to raise them, and watch them grow. Personally I want two. But, recently, I've been thinking three. I'm not entirely sure yet. I'll cross that bridge when I get there. -What about Career & Time management? I'm going to college for a reason, for in the future I want to be able to support my family every way I can possible. I don't want to be that parent that couldn't afford to take their kid somewhere they really wanted to go. I'm going to work super hard, I guess, which ever job I try to pursue, I can only hope it doesn't take up my time between my family and I. I can only hope the same for my significant other. -How will you manage family's financial? I'm pretty money savvy when it comes to my own personal financing. (That doesn't count when I go to conventions though.. I can't help myself half the time I'm there.) I only hope to keep my conscience strong when I'm a adult. -Is that important to have a short-term and long-term plan for our marriage life? I guess, it depends on the person I am with. Me, personally, I like to look at the big pictures, occasionally the little details. But, I want the plan, I want to know what happens and when it happens. Of course, that doesn't always work, and I know that. In fact, that could also lead to reasons why some of my relationships don't entirely work out because I just like an outline xD I'm trying to figure it out myself, fix it mainly, but, I want to take it one day at a time when it comes to marriage. Do you think divorce is the best solution to solve any big problem? or Will you try your best to save your marriage? Divorce is an absolute no. If I decided to marry you, you are stuck with me till death do us part. http://24.media.tumblr.com/27f5fa03d6415883076752ddc9a5ddc3/tumblr_n3ojg2jKAJ1txgib0o1_500.gif