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Coming out of the closet as STRAIGHT?

roseprince
Blah, blah and BLAH. I know im weird. LOL. But. Should I tell a girl about my past if we date you think? I just came out as straight to my mother. Do I tell her that I used to identify as gay for years and years when I was in school? I am not gay, I was just a confused kid. I used to dress in girl clothing too. I also had sex with boys!!!! Theres more but I am not that anymore. Do I tell her my past? I dont want to freak a possible date out... :/
wallace614
Nobody cares
leo_ss
I'd tell her if she asks or if you truly trust her. Personally if I were in a situation like that(Which I never will) I would just tell her.
rinatanchu
If you feel it is necessary, go for it. If not, don't tell her. If she asks, be honest. But it is just a date, right? Maybe that may be too personal for her to handle for a first date and needs to get to know you for a bit longer before reacting rationally.
mikasa85
Who cares about the past? live the present, mate!
key17
Mar 17, 15 at 2:01pm
Since it's over now, I'd say only if you feel like it. If anything, it'll be one thing off your chest.
kohagura
I honestly do not know any girls who would hate a guy for having been gay... Maybe it's because most of my girl friends are either LGBT or yaoi fans, though. Either way, I'd be honest. If she doesn't like you for who you are, and is too caught up in your past or "reputation", she might not really care for you.
nikita_13
Don't bring it up until you feel she's receptive to hear about your sexual history, which may be never or she may ask on the first date, or somewhere in between. Alternately you might wait until you know about her opinions on homosexuality/homosexuals first. Telling her about your past then being surprised with accusations of "your kind" being the cause of all evil in the world wouldn't go well. A bad time to let her know would be telling her you know how it feels if she's reluctant to give you oral or anal.
darkschneider
I don't think it would be an appropriate first-date topic in most cases. Be honest not verbose if asked but don't dump your history on someone out of the blue.
lilyomalley
What's done is done, so just start fresh. If she asks you should explain some stuff. Yesterday is history and tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it's called the present.
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