Fake Friendliness

Hi, how are you/hows your day? Happy/Merry christmas. Have a good day. Things you say over the counter to strangers should not count in this case. The real topic is to carry on a "friendship" with someone you either dont see as a friend or have no compassion for, but acting like you do. Asking how is your day to a friend, even if you don't care how their day was, is you showing care to them. Becuase you might not want to know how their day went but you care enough to do something just to make them feel better, even if just a little and its not something you like. It isn't the same thing as not caring if someone gets shot and texting them "hope you get well" when you don't care if they really do or not. I honestly don't know how not to be fully honest with people, I wear everything out in the open. If I don't like someone they know it, if I do like someone they really know it. It always unnerves me thinking people are internally different than they seem in front of me. If someone acted like they liked me, but really they don't care at all. then I could not stand being their friend and would end it. I won't be someone's NPC. I won't act like I care for someone if I don't. And I won't stand by as someone else does it to me or someone else. I might even go behind the uncaring person's back and tell the individual about it. They should know.

@Alistair, thanks for your feedback. That's exactly the kind of fakeness I was talking about. And I agree with everything you said!