Sooo.. am I gay? xD

xD lmao. Pretty funny topic here. Okay, I'd like to start off by saying I am not completely homosexual. I have never kissed a man, gotten an erection from a male, etc. Nor have I thought about any of these things. I have always dated/felt sexually attracted to women. But very very very rarely, I think "boy, that man is handsome.." xD For example, Freddie Mercury, I consider him "cute." But I do not think, nor could I imagine, that I would engage in sexual activities with him if I had the chance. I'd probably give him a kiss . Elvis as well. I feel that I may just like romanticizing the idea and "freedom" of being able to have no sex excluded from my selection of potential partners. To conclude, I do not think that I am gay/bixsexual. Would you disagree? and why? Please no comments like "Well, duh, you're gay! you'd kiss a boy!" I do not see that as being tantamount to declaring a complete and urgent sexual/romantic desire for men.

it's normal lol. For example I think Ryan Gossling is a very attractive guy, but would I have sexual fantasies about him? Hell no.

I think it's pretty normal; it's why people come up with lists, at least some of the people I know have them. You know, a list of guys/girls (of your own gender) you'd spend one night with.

Most reasonable people know sexuality is a sliding scale and not in black and white, I'd be nice if it was but it's simply not the case. That said I consider myself to be heterosexual and I appreciate attractive qualities in other men, I really don't see it as anything odd or unusual for a straight person.

Yeah it doesn't seem odd for me either. It's only odd in that I'm not sure how far I'd be willing to take it lmao xD. I can't imagine engaging in sexual activities with another male. I mean, most men are just bland looking creatures. But I do like the idea of letting loose or teasing with a male. I like the idea, though. I can't really imagine it coming into fruition.

If you're not sexually attracted to men then probably no. Lot of people kiss as greetings and stuff like that, it's not that unusual.. unless you mean on the lips. I also don't think it makes you gay to acknowledge that someone of the same gender is attractive when it's said in an objective way. Saying so and so looks good doesn't mean I wanna fuck them, it's just a complement and/or paying respect that's all.

Another example is with dancing. I am Brasilian, we dance very sensually some of us , just like anyone else, but from my experience, we really enjoy dancing. So, anyway, I notice a lot of us here (U.S.A) from my experience at parties, males do not dance, and when they do, it's like a robotic one-two step disasterous thing. However, I enjoy moving my hips plenty, and copying the movements of women, as I feel them to be less fearful of dancing with the entire body. Now, I notice males used to dance that way to disco and whatnot, so it's not inherently feminine. I guess it's just societal norms that make me feel the need to quickly and cleanly drop this feeling into it's own neat little box.

If it was me in your position and I was really curious to find out how far I'd take it I'd test it, next time a guy hits on you have a bit of fun and reciprocate, see how much you enjoy it.

Damn what a weird sensation lmao xD Yeah, I should give it a try I suppose. Maybe this summer when I go on a holiday .